He's 15 and I'm turning 15 this year, his family is very polite, respectful and nice but very strict aswell, only my siblings and cousins know about him and they really like him.
Great , good to hear about others impressions of you two together. Then comes those parental guidance and greviences of both you and him together. Turn your secret relationship into a known family relations involving both sides alltogether. Bring everyone together is what I mean. Make sure your schooling becomes exellent with future intentions and achievements in your own behalf in case something doesn't pull through as planned. Stand strong in your value with kindness as well as your intended direction for yourself as towards him also. Don't buckle under pressure and stand strong with kindness from your heart. These things mentioned will guide you and keep you out of reach from loosers.
I'll let my parents know about him once I'm 18, I'm scared they will separate us causing my mental state to become worse because I am battling with depression and anxiety.
I would end the relationship. If and when your parents find out It will destroy all the trust they have in you. Once trust is violated it takes a long, long to rebuild it. Better to be safe than risk it.
Just keep the relationship secret and meet together somewhere nobody knows (it seems you really like him). Having a crush on someone is one of the most beautiful things in life.
@FýrdracaDócincel dating during school is more distracting than dating during working a career when you’re older. Studying requires immense mental focus and concentration. You can’t study if you’re constantly texting your Boyfriend every half an hour. You can’t learn if you think more about your boyfriend than your school work
@FýrdracaDócincel you will only suffer the consequences of doing poorly in school when you hit your mid 20s. Just wait till you’re older to realize your parents were correct
@nella965 honey she's just in school. That's about the easiest thing ever. Wtf is wrong with you. You can't just study. And there isn't even enough to do. She now has more free time then she'll ever have.
@Hallo626262 School is not easy hun. Being the average B student is never gonna get you anywhere in life. I have been through the process myself. Now I am in mid 20s.
I did not learn how to study until I was in the military. Went back to school and had a B+ GPA in college. I don't even work in my field. No jobs available, but what I do work in is where jobs are in high demand.
@AnthonyJ01 if you are unemployed after graduating college, it means you did something wrong. I know exactly all the reasons why someone would graduate from college and not be able to find a job.
From my experience, folks who attended college / trade school tend to be wayy better off than those who never had a higher education / training. Its not something you see when you're 18, its something you notice when you hit 25.
you have no idea how many adults out there who regret not doing well in school when they were young. Many of them working minimum wage jobs or slightly above minimum wage, working 2-3 jobs to pay rent, food, raise the kids. No leisure, can't afford a vacation.
@Hallo626262 do you know that only top students in college get into medical school to become doctors? Average students have no chance of getting in. You will find out when you get older t
@Hallo626262 but still , I’m pretty sure you need to show that you’re smart enough to pass medical school by passing exams. If you’re dumb af and never study then you’re likely not gonna become a doctor
@Hallo626262 I can guarantee you that if you hold the same lack of respect towards education, you will never become a doctor. Only brilliant, highly intelligent, studios people get to become doctors. And once you become a doctor, you will also need to study for the rest of your life to keep your skills updated. This profession is not for low IQ folks, or people who don't like to study.
Aren't you a little young to be dating? You got your whole life ahead of you to worry about that, worry about your education 1st and dating once that is out of the way
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Your hormones are raging at that age. You are going to be curious. But you got to understand the distractions and dangers of this.
Anyway your in HS now right?
So far, you have't told anyone here how old is the guy.
If you two ever going to meet in person, you must notify your family.
First of all , how old is he? And what type of family oriented values has he demonstrated towards u and your family?
He's 15 and I'm turning 15 this year, his family is very polite, respectful and nice but very strict aswell, only my siblings and cousins know about him and they really like him.
Great , good to hear about others impressions of you two together. Then comes those parental guidance and greviences of both you and him together. Turn your secret relationship into a known family relations involving both sides alltogether. Bring everyone together is what I mean. Make sure your schooling becomes exellent with future intentions and achievements in your own behalf in case something doesn't pull through as planned. Stand strong in your value with kindness as well as your intended direction for yourself as towards him also. Don't buckle under pressure and stand strong with kindness from your heart. These things mentioned will guide you and keep you out of reach from loosers.
I'll let my parents know about him once I'm 18, I'm scared they will separate us causing my mental state to become worse because I am battling with depression and anxiety.
The truth will always find a way of coming out so just tell them. Why are you afraid of them finding out?
Because they will cut off everything, my wifi, my phone and my privacy..
Can you move out? With a friend maybe?
She's 14. She shouldn't run away and leave her family for some guy. I don't care how great he is.
I didn’t realize that when I wrote this
I think she should tell them the truth
Also asked are you Muslim? Because I know that muslims are very strict with the dating thing
I would end the relationship. If and when your parents find out It will destroy all the trust they have in you. Once trust is violated it takes a long, long to rebuild it. Better to be safe than risk it.
You've been dating this guy for 11 months, it's time to do the mature thing and be honest with your parents about it.
Just keep the relationship secret and meet together somewhere nobody knows (it seems you really like him). Having a crush on someone is one of the most beautiful things in life.
Enjoy that relationship. Its the sweetest when its secret. You open it, you blow💥it. Just like a letter b0mb. trust me 0n this one
"Very strict" but they give you dating advice... lol
School should come first. Dating distracts from school.
"School should come first. Work distracts from school. Work should come first. Personal life distracts from work.
Uh-oh. My life was wasted. Blegh." *Dead*
@FýrdracaDócincel dating during school is more distracting than dating during working a career when you’re older. Studying requires immense mental focus and concentration. You can’t study if you’re constantly texting your Boyfriend every half an hour. You can’t learn if you think more about your boyfriend than your school work
@nella965
I don't have enough patience across my entire lifetime to listen to someone justifying boomerism to me.
@FýrdracaDócincel you will only suffer the consequences of doing poorly in school when you hit your mid 20s. Just wait till you’re older to realize your parents were correct
@FýrdracaDócincel Without an education , you will have no future and the rest of your life will be a struggle.
@nella965
Blah blah blah.
Wasting your fucking life on trivial ideals of success isn't an option. We only get one of these you idiot.
So many times I have heard from my son how he should have listened to me.
@FýrdracaDócincel nobody cares if you live a miserable life when you grow up. All I know is my life will be happy. That’s all that matters
@nella965 honey she's just in school. That's about the easiest thing ever. Wtf is wrong with you. You can't just study. And there isn't even enough to do. She now has more free time then she'll ever have.
@nella965 wtf are you even talking about?
@Hallo626262 School is not easy hun. Being the average B student is never gonna get you anywhere in life. I have been through the process myself. Now I am in mid 20s.
I did not learn how to study until I was in the military. Went back to school and had a B+ GPA in college. I don't even work in my field. No jobs available, but what I do work in is where jobs are in high demand.
@AnthonyJ01 if you are unemployed after graduating college, it means you did something wrong. I know exactly all the reasons why someone would graduate from college and not be able to find a job.
From my experience, folks who attended college / trade school tend to be wayy better off than those who never had a higher education / training. Its not something you see when you're 18, its something you notice when you hit 25.
I have almost always had a job. Some better than others. Some supervisors better than others. Enjoying your job is most important though.
@AnthonyJ01 Money doesn't matter until you have retirement to save for and kids to feed. There is a BIG cost to life.
you have no idea how many adults out there who regret not doing well in school when they were young. Many of them working minimum wage jobs or slightly above minimum wage, working 2-3 jobs to pay rent, food, raise the kids. No leisure, can't afford a vacation.
@nella965 honey nobody is gonna care about your school marks once you achieve anything real...
@Hallo626262 what are you gonna achieve if you work at McDonald’s?
@nella965 what? I aim to be a psychiatrist. My school marks are completely irrelevant for that. I don't know how that is where you live though.
I have a Class A CDL, drive a Bus and a Semi
@Hallo626262 do you know that only top students in college get into medical school to become doctors? Average students have no chance of getting in. You will find out when you get older t
@nella965 lol "college" doesn't exist in Europe. You star medical school after highschool
@Hallo626262 but still , I’m pretty sure you need to show that you’re smart enough to pass medical school by passing exams. If you’re dumb af and never study then you’re likely not gonna become a doctor
@nella965 but that has nothing to do with focusing on fucking high school when there's really not that much you could even fokus on.
@Hallo626262 I can guarantee you that if you hold the same lack of respect towards education, you will never become a doctor. Only brilliant, highly intelligent, studios people get to become doctors. And once you become a doctor, you will also need to study for the rest of your life to keep your skills updated. This profession is not for low IQ folks, or people who don't like to study.
@Hallo626262 Only brilliant, highly intelligent, studious**** people get to become doctors.
@nella965 no sorry to burst your bubble but plenty of doctors are complete idiots.
@Hallo626262 do you realize how hard it is to get into medical school? Do u know the brain power it takes to pass medical school?
When I was in college, thousands of kids want to become doctors. Only problem is that 90% of them never actually get into medical school
@nella965 yeah that's not very connected to intelligence and has nothing to do with highschool.
@Hallo626262 if you can’t do well in high school, you won’t do well in college. High school is easier than college
@nella965 honey it doesn't work that way. Seriously you're just making a fool out of yourself now.
@Hallo626262 come back to me in a few years. you will be rejected from medical school and you will find out I’m right all along
You can’t challenge someone who has lived and experienced
@Hallo626262 You will learn what life is like when u get older. young people don't understand life.
I kinda hope that it's not secret because he's older than you
Fear won't get you anywhere.. either tell them or dont. But just remember if you guys do anything.. insist on protection
Aren't you a little young to be dating? You got your whole life ahead of you to worry about that, worry about your education 1st and dating once that is out of the way
I see he is 15 and you will be turning 15 this year. How far apart do you live from each other?
When you get pregnant don't come crying to mom and dad.
Go to go to Kaiser Permanente and don't tell nobody.
Well that depends what this relationship includes.
Oh they’ll find out more than likely
Maybe hope for the best, but expect the worst
If it ain't broke don't fix it