Guys are so weird no matter which way they look at a girl they're always going to have a bitch and a moan. Once they find the girl that they like and they start to understand her if I find out who she is they get scared they get scared because they might not be financially capable in their brain to take care of this girl what I'm saying is they are Cheapskates instead of doing whatever it takes to make it work they talk to themselves out of it because they're so cheap if they don't want to spend the money or what they think they might have to spend. So they lie to themselves they cheat themselves out of something that might be so beautiful in the long run even in the short run and is there lost. It's either that or they feel the energy coming from this girl and they don't think they can keep up with her because they're lazy and cheap LOL I look at it like this if there's somebody in your life that you like that acts this way you don't want to be around them anyway because eventually they will just fade into the couch and not even really communicate with you you need to find somebody that is on the same level as you are with the same smile with the same passion with the same desire that you have
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Highly unlikely. If a lot of people find you attractive... you might think you're really attractive. I might not, I might be disgusted by you. So I politely decline and have no business with you. I have had this happen many times. Women don't understand it. It's almost worthy of deserving hatred. How arrogant a person can be to think no one would reject them. Not assuming that's what you're doing but yeah. I doubt it.
I'd say 90% of the time the answer is he is not interested in you. period.
Yes. This has happened to me. I’ve dated guys who have flat out told me they aren’t going to take this seriously because I’m too pretty and I’ll eventually leave them for someone else. It’s sad. My current situation is much similar. He’s very insecure and there’s really nothing anyone can do about it because it lands on the guy. And it’s not a woman’s job to make him feel more secure. That’s like trying to fill a bottomless well.
Anybody can reject for whatever reason. I don't think a guy does this, though.
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Kinda... attractive girls will use guys all the time, so he may have been thinking that's the only reason someone out of his league would ask him out. Hard to tell though. If you want to make it work, take the time to let the guy get to know you. Once you have earned his trust things might change.
Meh... such guys tend to be the clingy/stalker types anyway. It's always best to get on top of your partners insecurities so you know if there are potential red flags or not.
It's not an insecurity, it's an inevitability that's she up and leaves him for someone better because 100% of the time females do this.
Absolutely.
Looks isn't everything and it fades. many times very fast with female's.Yes it happens a lot actually. It's usually because they feel intimidated
I suppose it’s possible because he would always think you would just leave him since you could do better
insecure guys like myself who never had a true girlfriend think most girls are out of his league.
It can be stressful when you feel like they're way out of your league.
Possible yes. But very very unlikely
I'm sure it's possible
Nope, you wish, but nope.
Definitely
Possible, but crazy.
Absolutely. Yes.
It's possible
Yes, it’s possible
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