I can think of several. I'm sleeping. I'm working. I'm busy with my schedule as a whole that day. I don't get the notification. I see it, telling myself I'll respond later when I have time but forget to respond later.
I'm already out doing something with somebody else. This actually happened to me this past Friday LOL. A girl texted me the wyd text and I was at a concert showing my support for my friend who was performing that night
Didn't see the text for something like 4 hours. Just before I'm about to leave that concert with the friends that I came with, another friend of mine sent me a Snapchat about that girl being in town
I still haven't checked my text oh, so I was surprised and said damn, well we're going to X bar next. Find an excuse to come. I get there with my friend, we're there probably for about 30 minutes when my other friend gets there with the girl
She got all awkward because I was with my friend who is a girl (lesbian). So she's thinking I ignored her because I was out with a girl. When I still hadn't even checked my texts yet lol. It was a whole thing that got sorted out.
But yea. For me I have text notifications turned off because I get too many throughout the day and I'm annoyed when my phone goes off too much. I always tell people if they want me to respond quickly to call, Snapchat, or Facebook Messenger
I'd reply if I liked her. If I was busy, my reply would tell her that, and suggest another time. Or, I might suggest in my reply a different place. I would definitely reply though.
If you didn't get a reply and your were expecting one, there could be technical glitch. Of the billions of text messages sent worldwide each day, an occasional one gets lost. If you're expecting a reply and not receiving one, it's usually a good idea to follow up with a message like "I sent you a text. Just wanted to make sure you received it."
It's nice you're getting all these hopeful answers like: too busy, didn't hear/see phone, etc.
However, let's be real. He is not all that interested. Despite whatever cute reason listed in the comments the facts are you're not in the forefront on his mind; people check their phone nurmous times a day, even more so after work. If he takes more than 24 hours to reply back, it's best to move on.
If a guy didn’t respond to me, I would assume he was not interested. Obviously if something is more important than him replying to a text from me, then he’s more interested in other things than replying to me. If he was interested enough he would reply right when he saw my text pop up on his phone.
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No. If I am interested I am making it happen. Anything else is disinterest.
Yes. For example, one time there was this hot blonde woman I had a thing for. She had a lot of guys chasing her. We talked some. I had a really big emergency around the time of my birthday & she knew this. Did not hear one word from her about my emergency or my birthday so I moved on. Did not hear anything from her for 8+ months when she contacts me saying she needs me to come over to help her with something. I know she wants a booty call. I just ignored it 100%. I'm not the pizza delivery man & I don't have time for a-holes.
I will always reply to someone whether or not I like them. If I like a girl, I'll respond and we will work out the details. If not, I will let her know so she does not waste her (or more importantly MY) time.
If it disappears into volume of other messages and spams ie blackfriday can drown anyones inbox. It also depends on if we had contact before or if it actually look like a spam letter. It can also be that I have been very busy and haven't had time to check my messages. Treat a silence as a no until it becomes a yes in a reply.
If I was busy or had my phone on silent. I may not notice the message for a day or two. But I'd reply when I finally read it. I forget to take my phone off silent and don't really ever look at it if it isn't making noise.
Although, if I'm busy with something and see it. If it wasn't that important to me. I'd probably forget she messaged me. Not remembering it until an awkwardly long time has passed.
C. I will respond.
Good manners call for SOME sort of a response.
Whether it's, "Sure, I'd love to", right down to, "Make like a drum and beat it!", make some sort of reply. #1. The sender knows you received the message. #2. A response eliminates time-wasting, and sets things straight, right from the start. (The start may also be the finish, but at least all parties know what's up. )
The only girls that proposal ask you to do something for two different type of gross the first one a girl who is very unattractive overweight or has no nice shape or the second type of girl that maybe she looks good but she’s also a whore basically she has slept around with way too many guys
No, she deserved an answer just because she took the initiative.
And I would like to give her (me) the chance that you should get the picture of yourself, because you will certainly be surprised at times how this affects you and everything can develop very differently.
Yeah, I may like you... but, dammit... I'm married! I am not about to risk losing the good thing I have going over some drink!
I could say I can't meet, but I would reschedule the meeting and won't just cancel it.
But I know guys that acts more casual and can cancel a meeting whith a girl their like.. so.. 😅
How long did he leave you on seen for? If he was interested , he would definitely junmp on the opportunity. Perhaps, he has another girl in his mind
IF I liked her, I'd be thrilled if she asked me out for a drink. I can't think of ANY reason I wouldn't want to go. If I couldn't do in the next few days, I'd tell her why and make a date for my earliest possible time.
This depends 100% on our history! I know some girls I don't want to be around any watering hole when they are there.
I would always reply either yes or no. Not doing so is rude.
If I’m busy or tired, unless we’re a few dates in and I don’t mind her seeing me a little off my game. But sure, plenty of situations would be reason enough to not go out foe a drink.
There could be several reasons from anything that I didn't charge my phone, my phone is on silent for whatever reason, I am busy. So, it may not have to do with you.
If somebody's busy, they still have time at the end of the day to respond unless there's some emergency that made them forget or they just don't give a fuck
I don't drink. I also don't hang around women alone.
I’m an alcoholic with 8+years , and I know being around any alcohol triggers the need. If that’s the case they should have picked somewhere else
Yes, all of them.
I don't date alcohol drinkers.
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