Are guys more hesitant to confess their feelings to a girl if they are thinking serious about her or if they have genuine feelings?

[Anonymous]

My guy friend took forever to tell me how he feels while I was cuddled up in his arms... it took him over 2 years to confess his feelings towards me and he was telling me all of my good qualities that he sees in me...
he was also curious to know if I still talk to my exboyfriend and wanted to see my phone as well... he was a bit offended when I didn’t answer my phone...

meanwhile he straight up asked this other girl who he knows is a good friend of mine saying he will date her and he was not hesitant...

Are guys more hesitant with women they actually care about and think serious about?

Hesitant when thinking serious about someone

Alll guys like to move slow

[kyleelyn199723]

I wouldn’t totally say that. Maybe he wasn’t sure at first or actually really didn’t care at first, but I think over the time of two years if you are both partaking in relationship activities, at least one of you is bound to catch feelings.

[ArchivalMars2]

I wouldn't say all guys wait 2 years plus but I can tell you that guys who are serious about a girl put real thought into whether or not to admit their feelings to her.

[Vikkrram]

You know... it happens only when... you don't know the feelings of others... and if anyone would confess it may be it can ruin ur friendship...

[mark000h]

Aren't you supposed to wait until you're sure to say it?

[spartan55]

Like so many things you girls get in your heads, one has nothing to do with the other.

[Cowboy6666]

Personally I won't wait so long.
Some guys want to confirm things before confessing but this is long time.

[Pogo2117]

It depends... Some guys do confess as soon as they get a crush or some wait until they have genuine feelings

[Danny_dan92]

No. I wouldn’t say so