Girls, Do you care if your partner has little to no dating or sexual experience?

[JadeKnockWalker]

Does it matter to you how experienced your partner is?
Be it with dating, or with sex?

Perhaps you meet someone! Then you find out due to them being an introvert.. they have never been on a date? Or perhaps they have never done anything sexual; perhaps not even kissed?

Would this change your perspective on them?
Would you be less likely to pursue this person in a relationship?
Or would it make them more appealing?
Or would you simply not care about their past experiences?

[Aerissa_Jade]

Yes and no, I've been with virgins before and they get weird after, but dating someone who has never dated could be really awkward as he would have zero experience and be very clueless.

For sexual experience, I like someone on my level. Even when I've been willing to not care, the guys have issues with my sexual experience when they find out that I'm way more experienced than them, it bothers them.

Even guys who say they don't care, eventually seem to care. I suspect the guys that truly do not care are the ones that just want sex and not a relationship, those that want a relationship have issues.

The guy I'm with right now, I have more than 3x times the number of sexual partners but he has quite a bit of experience and seems okay with it so far, time will tell.

[zaharuh]

You said it perfectly

[theothersider]

my Husband had virtually no experience when I got with him. It was kind of fun teaching him how to sex me :)

[Anonymous]

I don't care, and I don't think most people do. As long as they can learn, and are into me.

Honestly, little to no experience has some great perks. Nothing like being a guys first everything.

Basically a leash and a collar. I absolutely know that I've shaped their sexual tastes forever, and they'll be seeking me out when they meet other people, wanting to feel what we did. They may change, but they will think of me for a long time.

So I guess yeah, I do care in that I love teaching puppies new tricks. It's a positive, unless the guy is really bad in bed and can't follow instructions.

[thatonearies]

I guess it depends on how much I like the person and how compatible we are. Ideally, I'm okay with being with someone who has no relationship experience. But not too interested in being with someone with no sexual experience. At the same time, I am sympathetic because I have a similar personal story so like I said it depends. But I'd have to really really like the guy to continue seeing him after learning about his lack of sexual experience.

[kyleelyn199723]

I do prefer my man having a little experience under his belt because it gives insight that he may have gone through his phase of being promiscuous and more willingly to settle down. What I said is very subjective, but just my opinion

[icelolly]

Won't matter. I'd teach him or if I'm inexperienced as well then we might explore this bright ditzy world together. How fun is that 🌩️🌩️

[Emilymaybebabys]

Well I wouldn't date someone like that in the first place. Not because of the lack of experience but because people who lack experience have other qualities I don't like

[RainInOsaka]

No i dont! The guy im seeing rn doesn't have any sexual experience. And im fine with it. Better yet to teach him everything that you absolutely love

[zaharuh]

I prefer guys with similar experience to mine but I wouldn't like let it stop me from liking someone

[TacosRAwesome]

In my younger years I would have been fine with someone who didn't have a lot of experience. Nowadays, if I were single I'd probably dates someone between the ages of 30 and 40 (possibly a little older) so lack of experience would be a bit strange.

[bigbluey]

If he could give me an really good orgasm I wouldn’t care

[angstyangel95]

I like it more if they are inexperienced. I have a virgin fetish I think.

[lilyisready]

i'm a lot less likely to be interested in a guy if he's never dated

[Flower7]

The less experience, the better.

[HimaniS]

It wouldn't be a fun experience for me.

[Jessicajochen]

No it wouldn’t matter to me

[collie22]

i don't have much experience ether

[ering987]

It doesn' bother me one way or the other

[Gwenhwyfar]

Not that much

[Sorue]

No, neither do I

[janeebea]

Doest really matter