Inequality in a relationship?

[Anonymous]

Location Victoria, Australia. In Victoria unjabbed NOT allowed to work outside home, in NSW (across the border) unjabbed ARE allowed to work outside home (in most cases). Getting jabbed is not an option. Been together for four years.

I am not allowed to work in Victoria. My partner does not want to move to NSW even though there we both would have the same opportunities. He wants to stay in Victoria because he's "career, family and friends are here". Fair enough, except I moved to Australia to be with him and left my family and friends behind. Also he would find work very easily in NSW.

I think he should see us as a unit and we, as a unit should do whatever is required to ensure we BOTH are happy. I am obviously not happy since I can't work and have no income. At the same time he is not happy with having to pay for everything (and he complains about this to me and to other people) but fails to see that HE is the reason why he has to pay for everything since HE does not want to move and give me a chance to work and contribute. I think he is being extremely selfish and his actions say "not committed" to this relationship at all.

How to proceed?

[molonski2]

Its never the case " vaccination is NOT an option " , Its a option , its not only an option its vitally important to protect the community , Australian doctors recommend vaccination for ALL , you are young , dont be ludicrous , follow the science , the rules will also change in NSW and QLD , and its already the case in WA.
If you care even remotely about your relationship and your community - GET VACCINATED , its not for you , its for others the entire community , hence the Victorian laws , you are already behind because you need to be triple vaxed.

What is not an option , is not participating , you are fortunate you were able to come to Australia in the first place.

[Asker]

You are brainwashed. Mind you, my partner did not want to get jabbed but did it only to be able to keep his job. Please do not comment anymore, I have nothing to say to people who think like you. Disgusting.

[slatyb]

You are the moron who won’t get vaccinated. Go back home.