Why is there a double standards about women are picky and ask about height and yet get angry when asked about their size?

[more_than_a_guy]

Many women want a guy who is way taller than them. And height isn't something you can change. They can as a guy's height.
But we all know that you can't ask a woman her weight/size. And size can be changed.

[Little_Bumblebee]

Well, those are not the same things.
Honestly, I would much rather be judged about something that is a constant, something that's never going to be changed, than something like my weight.
The weight will change throughout your whole life, and the body will change as you get older, especially if you have kids.
But to be judged and get the feeling you're only dateable if you're a certain size, and that your partner will leave you if you gain or lose weight, yeah that's not in any way better than to be judged by a constant thing.

Yeah, they're both rooted in physical attraction, but they're still not the same.

If someone rejected me because I was too short, or because of my eye color or something else I couldn't change, then they're just not supposed to be with me.

I'm not trying to defend a side here, I'm sure getting rejected based on either case can be hurtful, but they're not the same kind of rejections.
That's just how I see it, I would rather be rejected based on something unchangeable about me.

[Berethor]

Feminism. :)