Ok , so I have been dating this guy for nine months and everything was going good. I go over and beyond for him all the time making sure he is mentally, physically , emotionally good because I know black men in america go through many things so checking on them is important. He was staying with me for a couple days just because every time he go home , he ends back up here at my home. So he will stay damn near every day or every other day. My birthday week came and on that Sunday he begin to act different. Not answering calls, saying it’s me not you, I haven’t seen him at all and that’s not like us. We co own a pet as well and I haven’t even seen my pet as well. I call at night time he say he don’t see his phone and doesn’t respond until next day. During the day we use to be texting non stop or not going at least 30 mins without checking for each other. Now we go five to six hours a day no text , no call and he doesn’t even FaceTime me anymore which has just literally shook my whole world up because he all I know for the last past 9 months. It was like he just switched up on me out of no where , I didn’t see this coming at all. My birthday came and not one time did he even try to see me on my birthday , plus half of the Time he didn't answer. No gift , no date , and a 1 minute conversation. Should I just leave him alone , is it someone else ….
im just really hurt because we went from being good for 9 months and one time that it’s a special day coming for me … he switch on the beginning of the week all the way until my birthday with no explanations.
im just really hurt because we went from being good for 9 months and one time that it’s a special day coming for me … he switch on the beginning of the week all the way until my birthday with no explanations.
