She doesn't want labels?

[curiousminds20]

I've been seeing this girl and we're pretty much in a relationship at this point, except she doesn't want to go public and label ourselves as dating. She's not seeing anyone else but says she wants to keep her options open. Kinda makes me feel shitty cause I want to have a relationship with her and I really don't know how to go about it, but she acts like she's only interested in me. She talks about her trust issues from he past boyfriends and I get her being skeptical but I've done everything to prove that I'm trustworthy and that I'm there, it just doesn't make sense when she tells me I'm perfect and that I treat her like no one else has and then says she's not ready to commit. Just makes me confused on if she truly likes me or if she's just saying that to not hurt my feelings. Any advice?

[Ghen30]

She wants to keep her options open as she said. It means you aren't the only man she's interested in. You're an option, meaning she might find another to replace you. She isn't worth your time. Drop her and find someone who actually cares.

[Shamalien]

She ain’t that into you... enjoy what you got while it lasts and keep your eye open for a better woman

[Ghen30]

Exactly.