I'd never "chase" someone. Nor would I want them to "chase".
I prefer mature relationships with adults who have healthy mental states, boundsries, and expectations.
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I'm proud of you! You're half way there. Correct, men are chasing less. Now you just half to come the other 50% and realize why that is anymore... because... there is no pay off. There is no reason to chase. It's a rainbow but at the end no pot of gold, just a leprechaun mooning you is all. Most guys realize chasing is a fruitless effort with MOST women today. Want a guy to chase. You have to give him a legitimate reason to. Just being a woman isn't enough, sorry.
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Men are not chasers anymore because of women. Guys are considered creeps, girls are tired of guys trying to pick up on them. Girls have high expectations, guys feel like it's not worth it anymore. You have better luck in letting the guy know you like him at least, but don't be surprised if you start feeling like guys do, getting nowhere.
You just said it yourself that men have a bunch of options so it’s really pointless for a woman to sit there and pursue them and if he really wants you heal pursue you
No, you missed the point. Why ask out a bunch of girls and keep getting rejected and being called a creep? Girls would do better for themselves by letting the guy they like know, instead of rejecting a bunch of other guys. But maybe girls notice not getting asked out anymore? Men have less options than women, that's for sure.
You do we don’t, May have way more access to women than women due to men. Porn women that just don’t give a fuck and we outnumber you so you can choose whoever women on the other hand don’t have that there’s already a small selection of guys and I have the small selection of guys. You have a certain caliber and then we don’t meet up to those standards you’re not getting picked at all or a call back or text back or anything women sometimes can be far less memorable because there’s so many
But why do women have 50 messages on dating apps and I have only 1. And that's not just me. I go on there because I was bored, not actually thinking I would meet someone. There are many lesbians these days too, and so much competition, many guys that wand love are alone because they aren't in the top 10%. You seem like a nice girl. If you like someone it's not clingy if you start talking or saying hi and see how he responds. Guys might think you're taken, or not interested, and get tired of rejection so they aren't asking you out anymore or a lot less. But online, women get tons of messages from guys, and guys get way less, unless they're a Chad. Personally I don't ask women out but they start talking to me first in real life, not online.
Yep. Apparently there is a new social media trend where women film themselves at a gym and wait for some guy to approach and then they shame him. The last one i saw was a guy approaching a woman at a gym (who was about to do hip thrusts on the floor) offering her a mat to sit on. She told him to leave her alone and to get away. Now he's all over social media...
A personal trainer said doing that exercise without a mat (that she refused) was dangerous and could damage her lower spine!
All of the videos look like social media validation seeking. If a woman approached me during or before a workout, I'd just tell her I wasn't there for that and politely. Not film her and shame her on social media!
@Truthatanycost Yeah but it’s also crazy because it’s like women are very much assessable to Guy so it’s like we have to play double the role where we’re vulnerable and where good and independent
I'm sure you're in the minority. Women play games trying to make men chase after them and get nowhere. Whay are there so many single guys if it was so easy to find a woman that's wants a relationship and doesn't have a high body count? Maybe there are more women on the planet, but it's much easier for a woman to get a date than it is for a guy.
It's a sign of the value decrease of women, it's always the one with low value that needs to put in the effort. To be honest it shouldn't be a chase. But both needs to prove themselves to each other.
I don’t handle him or waste my time on him at all. I do not have time to be playing games, so if he’s not honest and straightforward about what he wants then it will never work out between us.
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I'd never "chase" someone. Nor would I want them to "chase".
I prefer mature relationships with adults who have healthy mental states, boundsries, and expectations.
I'm proud of you! You're half way there. Correct, men are chasing less. Now you just half to come the other 50% and realize why that is anymore... because... there is no pay off. There is no reason to chase. It's a rainbow but at the end no pot of gold, just a leprechaun mooning you is all. Most guys realize chasing is a fruitless effort with MOST women today.
Want a guy to chase. You have to give him a legitimate reason to. Just being a woman isn't enough, sorry.
Men are not chasers anymore because of women. Guys are considered creeps, girls are tired of guys trying to pick up on them. Girls have high expectations, guys feel like it's not worth it anymore. You have better luck in letting the guy know you like him at least, but don't be surprised if you start feeling like guys do, getting nowhere.
You just said it yourself that men have a bunch of options so it’s really pointless for a woman to sit there and pursue them and if he really wants you heal pursue you
No, you missed the point. Why ask out a bunch of girls and keep getting rejected and being called a creep? Girls would do better for themselves by letting the guy they like know, instead of rejecting a bunch of other guys. But maybe girls notice not getting asked out anymore? Men have less options than women, that's for sure.
You do we don’t, May have way more access to women than women due to men. Porn women that just don’t give a fuck and we outnumber you so you can choose whoever women on the other hand don’t have that there’s already a small selection of guys and I have the small selection of guys. You have a certain caliber and then we don’t meet up to those standards you’re not getting picked at all or a call back or text back or anything women sometimes can be far less memorable because there’s so many
But why do women have 50 messages on dating apps and I have only 1. And that's not just me. I go on there because I was bored, not actually thinking I would meet someone. There are many lesbians these days too, and so much competition, many guys that wand love are alone because they aren't in the top 10%. You seem like a nice girl. If you like someone it's not clingy if you start talking or saying hi and see how he responds. Guys might think you're taken, or not interested, and get tired of rejection so they aren't asking you out anymore or a lot less. But online, women get tons of messages from guys, and guys get way less, unless they're a Chad. Personally I don't ask women out but they start talking to me first in real life, not online.
Wow. She thinks guys have it easier dating
@Agagagagaga No not dating access
I know you don’t think all guys want a relationship and they don’t whatever you’re not giving somebody is definitely willing to
Yep. Apparently there is a new social media trend where women film themselves at a gym and wait for some guy to approach and then they shame him. The last one i saw was a guy approaching a woman at a gym (who was about to do hip thrusts on the floor) offering her a mat to sit on. She told him to leave her alone and to get away. Now he's all over social media...
A personal trainer said doing that exercise without a mat (that she refused) was dangerous and could damage her lower spine!
All of the videos look like social media validation seeking. If a woman approached me during or before a workout, I'd just tell her I wasn't there for that and politely. Not film her and shame her on social media!
@Truthatanycost Yeah but it’s also crazy because it’s like women are very much assessable to Guy so it’s like we have to play double the role where we’re vulnerable and where good and independent
I'm sure you're in the minority. Women play games trying to make men chase after them and get nowhere. Whay are there so many single guys if it was so easy to find a woman that's wants a relationship and doesn't have a high body count? Maybe there are more women on the planet, but it's much easier for a woman to get a date than it is for a guy.
Nope I tell them I like them and try not to think much of it. I already gave him my number I tried to text nothing
Ok at least you're trying but now you know how guys feel. Trying to pursue a girl and getting nowhere.
It's a sign of the value decrease of women, it's always the one with low value that needs to put in the effort. To be honest it shouldn't be a chase. But both needs to prove themselves to each other.
I like being chased. Mostly because I play hard to get but I'm still flirtatious in the process. If he doesn't show interest back then stop pursuing.
I don’t handle him or waste my time on him at all. I do not have time to be playing games, so if he’s not honest and straightforward about what he wants then it will never work out between us.
I dont. .🤣. I dont deal with them that's a feminine quality and I don't like feminine men
Depends on the guy, and will he stop at some point? :D
No you shouldn’t cause that’s a test. Keep cute, feminine, happy and fit.
I ain't chasin no man just because I like him. If he wanna stay, he'll stay. If not, fk off.
Don't chase anyone. We are adults, it's not Marco polo.
I will chase, I do not care if he prefers it or no, I want him and I will get him. END OF STORY <3
I don't. I only peruse men that I am interested in... though a lot of guys these days seem like they feel entitle to someone else just for existing.
Don't.
"I feel like this generation in this day and age men aren’t the chasers anymore" - not true
Well it's your turn now then 😝.
If he wants to be chased chase him
I’ve never pursued a man because I can’t and I need to be pursued so I can’t help you
If you like playing games, then continue on this path.
Why not just ask him? I hate it when people drop "hints" and play games, just be direct and honest.
I have already told him I liked him. I have already gave him my number. I’ve reach out the first move. Their nothing I can do
If you showed interest and he gave you none then he is not interested.
PM me. I'll help you through it.