Am I good enough to get a boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

I'm very slim 5ft 8 120lbs. Blonde hair with fair skin.

I'm very easy going and make friends easily.

Love to be adventurous as I travelled the world myself. 🌎 I'm very independent not clingy and demanding so I wouldn't get mad if needed time to himself.
My hobbies: hikes, gym, drawing and baking

[MCheetah]

Yes you are good enough to get a boyfriend.
Your looks and hobbies are not the issue, though.
How demanding are you being towards men?
Do you jut want a good decent man, or are you looking for perfection and some kind of trophy partner? Cause it seems like the majority of women nowadays are looking for the latter (the few who are actually still straight, that is).

[Asker]

no im not looking for a trophy guy i just want someone nice but im scared to ask guys

[DarkWinterNights]

On the surface you sound like my type. So yeah- for casual dating you shouldn’t have too much trouble. You just need to go where you can meet guys and show interest. Make yourself approachable.

[Asker]

I like this guy but he seems very awkward and fidgets a lot when I'm with him. He's 28 but he's really nice

[DarkWinterNights]

Is he awkward, or awkward around you.

[Asker]

Around me it seemed

[FilmGuy93]

You sound pretty awesome. I could see men thinking you didn't want them around though. Depends on how independent you are.

[Asker]

Yes I'm scared to give signals I like them I've always been like that

[FilmGuy93]

Ah! That's a problem. Women need to be comfortable giving men signs to approach. If you don't give us signs that you are receptive, the only men who will approach you are the socially awkward and tone deaf ones, or men who don't respect boundaries.

[Asker]

im going to be brave and ask this guy i met out

[FilmGuy93]

Best of luck!

[BCRanger10]

Everyone has their own preferences. You're all good.

[Th3ft]

I mean I would date Toby if we were around watch other.

[BarryLiverstone]

Part of it depends on your experience in your past relationships

[Asker]

Really i know people that got married to their very first girlfriend/boyfriend it's how you get along tbh

[Asker]

I found in the past with guys I didn't mesh with it was completely awkward

[BarryLiverstone]

So have you been in many relationships? I mean meshing with guys could mean there are things you could improve on

[Asker]

Yeah I was with a guy for 4 years but he was terrible. He was cheating behind my back and had so many exes awful never again

[Asker]

I met allt of my brothers friends who were engineers who have been single for years and they were so nice I don't understand they are 28-31

[BarryLiverstone]

It sounds like you will need to meet more and diverse people. You travel a lot so do you make friends easily and maintain those relationships

[Asker]

Yes I've had friends for 6- 10 years and still going strong

[BarryLiverstone]

Great. Why haven’t they been able to set you up with good guys?

[Asker]

Well I was at this event last week and we had like 10 people at the table and this guy shared his fries with me first

[Asker]

I asked this question hoping i was intwrsting enough lol

[BarryLiverstone]

Based on the details you provided in the question it’s impossible to know if you are interesting enough. I mean do guys hit on you or ask you out?

[Asker]

When I'm walking around I do get a lot of guys but it's not good guys usually they just want to have sex some guy at the subway took put condoms

[Asker]

I've been told by my brother that good guys do not approach girls so maybe I have to ask them out

[BarryLiverstone]

That’s not correct. Maybe your brother is giving you bad advice or you misunderstood. A good person will approach someone if they want to get to know them more

[Asker]

Well I've never had a guy with good intentions approach me then

[BarryLiverstone]

Anyway I’ve answered the question, feel free to follow me if you wanted to talk about it more

[BarryLiverstone]

Guys can have multiple intentions lol, we are not simple creatures

[DWornock]

Of course you can get a boyfriend. That is easy. However, you may not get the boyfriend you want.

[zagor]

Probably. It's not like applying to Harvard.

What would make you think otherwise?

[exitseven]

What kind of workouts do you like?

[Asker]

Weight training and plyometrics

[exitseven]

okay, If I was single and 20 years younger I would date you.

[20yearsolder]

Most definitely, why do you think that you aren't?

[Ismellahater]

absolutely. what are you waiting for?

[Asker]

Haha I'm scared to get things going lol with someone I like

[Straight2thepoint]

Post a picture and ull find out fast.

[Dat-Alpha-Lion]

Would you mind talking to a younger guy?

[Anonymous]

I don't think so.

[jasco]

Yea I think so

[NYlatefun]

Sounds good to me!

[Xtendable]

You sound great

[jimmy2]

Wish I was younger

[Anonymous]

Yes.