She’s very attractive, in grad school and approachable. We had small talk probably 4-5 times before I finally went for it yesterday and asked her if she liked to get breakfast. She smiled at me and said “thanks but I have a bf”.
I knew that might be likely so it didn’t bother me at all. I could also tell from her body language she was most likely telling the truth, a bit flattered and there wasn’t a hint of “you creep” reaction at all. I was slightly disappointed but she handled it the best way possible.
It’s been a long time since I’ve approached a woman directly like this. Covid and dating apps has unfortunately been the way to go. But I felt proud of myself for having the guts to ask. I figure you miss every shot you don’t take.
However the crappy part is I will most likely run into her again. I plan to keep friendly and small talk. But I hate that awkward feeling especially when I am in a gym, work, etc. trying to get something done.
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