Should I let her come to me with a time?

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I've seen this girl a couple of times, she put herself on my radar and has made a lot of effort.

We dated and got quite physical already. It feels really natural to be together. Especially when we hug. Conversation flows naturally and effortlessly. Only thing we didn't do is kiss since she got a bit too flustered, which is okay.

I'm eager to see her again but she's a very busy person. When I went to her place she showed me all the work she does and it's absolutely incredible for one person to do it all. It's certainly the truth.

Knowing this, I told her she can let me know when she's free to meet again since the schedule is pretty rough, but maybe we can meet up over the weekend.

She replied and told me she's working but that we should pick a good day to do something.

Shall I leave it with her to suggest a day for now? I'm assuming she genuinely means it.

Until now she's basically asked me out anyway or suddenly sent me a place that she want to go with me.

I don't want to push too hard and spoil a good thing.

I'll see her most days of the week anyway since we're in the same building all day, so maybe it's a good idea to suggest something in the week if I don't hear anything.
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I ended up buckling and making a different suggestion which she very eagerly agreed to.

Sometimes it's worth it to work for what you want.

But thanks for the advice in this thread, I definitely like the idea of taking a pizza to her place and offering any help
Should I let her come to me with a time?
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