Do you believe in the saying "the longer you wait, the hotter you date"?

[Anonymous]

Applies to both men and women.

We have seen countless memes on it but,

Have you seen it happen ever in reality?

[Kiss_Me]

Waiting to date on the chance you may date a "hotter" person is extremely foolish on many levels. It's also very immature.

The primary asset Teenie-boppers are looking for in a date is their looks. They lack the experience and maturity to consider much else. Hearing statements like, "... out of their league" or "I can do better." are excellent examples.

What about character? Do they have it? Do you? What about honesty, integrity, and morality? Are they intelligent, interesting, and fun? Do you have that rare connection with them? Do they "Get you?" Do YOU have the dating skills (YES, dating is a skill) such as flirting, conversation, confidence, etc to actually find and date someone?

So, the question of the day is, "How do I ensure I gain experience and develop dating skills?" The answer is... practice. Date a lot. Stay away from the foolish "Auto-pilot" mentality of "Date=Relationship." Ask out or accept date requests from people that may not be the ideal person. Go out, have some fun, but ensure they know you may date other people and you are not exclusive.

Other people will see you do this. They will start to see you as more "Approachable" and ask you out or accept a date request. You may also learn that looks are not that high on your priority list when looking for a date.

Don't wait, Date.

[Anonymous]

No, I think it's totally random. The best woman I ever met that wanted me was when I was 21.

Now you could make the argument that the longer you wait the more mature you are. So waiting and being older you're more likely to make better choices.

[jennifer_bloom]

Speaking from observation, a lot of men and woman settled for deeply flawed people because they did not know good ones or better ones were in the dating pool, I know one girl who wasted 12 years with an abuser before leaving him. I know many others who got themselves tied down to inferior people because they were not willing to wait for better options, some spent over 30 years regretting their decision. So it’s partially true.

[Hrumf]

My ex was a hot sexy toxic mess. He was my first actual relationship and it started when I was 27. Didn’t go out on dates with guys anywhere close to his sexiness previously and it always ended by the third date.


Now that I am 31 I am waiting for this to come to fruition because I would love to have a man who is sexier than my ex 😉


I have not seen this to be true unfortunately.

[MannyFrs]

hi nice to meet you, i am sexier than your ex

[Asker]

May be you will again get a hot sexy toxic mess , good luck 🤭

[Hrumf]

I will skip on the toxic mess though. I will take the rest 🤣

[Pinay_ako]

😂 are you waiting for your knight in shining armour on his noble steed to sweep you off your feet? 🤣 😑 I think 🤔 not!

[Babygirl_S]

I don't think it's true because as a woman gets older less men find her attractive. Even the men in their 30s prefer teenagers! Maybe it holds true for men because as you have more resources as an old man more young gold diggers will be attracted to you.

[Asker]

She can get a good career and still marry better guys. Many older guys do care about getting the same status of girl.

[Babygirl_S]

They care about youth and beauty not career.

[anon1903]

I agree with her

[Chill_Thoughts]

Nah like I'm 23 and I don't think I'll ever date girls hotter in the future. Maybe the peak started at 21 and will last till I'm 28? 30? I don't know, but for sure they won't get hotter

[OddBeMe]

Ehh, in a sense, the more picky you are, perhaps thats true. BUT…the more experience you have talking to and liking to talk to chicks or guys, the better your connections- thus the better your SO will be.

[menina]

This sounds too good to be true, so I'm not sure if I believe in it.

[anon1903]

Nah. It's one of the white lies society tells you for chastity reasons.

in my opinion, the longer you wait, the leftovers you date! makes more sense.

[KAT247]

Maybe not hotter but usually better quality, which is hotter overall.

[MuddyMole]

No, of course not. Plus, being a good partner actually takes practice, so even if you do wait forever and find the perfect one, you're probably going to screw it up and get dumped pretty quick.

[TrueConfection]

I think the saying, "If you snooze you lose," has more truth to it in regards to dating.

[Flower7]

No, in my experience, guys lose interest as time passes.

[Asker]

Only if you have nothing but beauty that will happen.

[Flower7]

Or if they only want sex, which is the majority of the time.

[TacosRAwesome]

Nah. It's bullshit told by parents and weirdos to keep you locked indoors.

[Sandorappah]

I dated someone 12 years ago, still together and still find her hot! doesn't mean other people aren't attractive to me though

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Yes, happened to me. Waited 5 years to get a girlfriend and now mine is an international model and pageant queen.

[MannyFrs]

she's probably screwing other guys bro just saying i'd at minimum go through her phone etc

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Already have. She's gone through mine too. No need to be so pessimistic

[bamesjond0069]

For me the more casual sex i have the better a girl i get. Just adds to abundance mindset. If you got 3 cool and cute fwbs, the bar is high for a girl to come in after that and be more plus its comfortable to wait 😁

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I guess it's a matter of perspective. Since the statement can be true both ways

[Jamie05rhs]

No; I don't think this is true.

Yes, I still want to date a hot woman. But I will consider myself lucky, and I will certainly appreciate her and not take her for granted!

[EnglishEuropean]

I think "the longer you wait the less you date" is more accurate.

[Anonymous]

I've never heard that before and it makes absolutely NO sense at all.

A more sensible saying is "he who hesitates, masturbates." So basically the exact opposite.

[maximumpower]

Never heard of that one.
Cannot say that could ever agree with it, either.
Rubbish.

[Gangactivities911]

I don’t think this applies to women but I don't know