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Omg it's very difficult for me. Unless we get to know each other first before I ask
Why very difficult?
Because I see myself as unattractive so I assume rejection
Says who
Me...
Easy. I know what/who I want. Easy for me to screen out those who do not meet my standards.
first of all I wouldn’t ask for a stranger’s personal information that is creepy and a red flag in my book.
I go long periods with relationship or sex because I'm to shy in person to go hit on someone. but in a relationship they tend to last a year or more
I would say it's easy for me kinda depends.
Hard because the interest wasn't from them initially.
So what do you do to get their attention?
when I was not married it was easy was not worried about rejection but then I was pretty hot so didn't get turned down much but that was a long time ago
it's hard asf for me irl but a bit easier on text lol
Wouldn’t know. Never tried. But I’m modern society, I don’t blame men for not trying.
It is very easy for me to ask girls out. I usually meet them in a local pub and most know me from what other girls told them.
@Pinay_ako Thank you for the Like
Honestly it's not something I can do. I can't approach someone and ask for a number so I'm stuck with online dating which tbh isn't any better
It's not easy.
Always second guessing. Sometimes I look into the eyes of the girl with a smile if she smiles back, I can proceed but when she doesn't I walk away.
It used to since I have been rejected many times but now i just move on, NEXT
Honestly can't remember, I haven't tried dating in over 10 years
Getting a girl's number is easy, it's what comes after that gives me trouble
I don’t mind the word no, so asking is no problem.
I've never approached a woman, I'm a pussy
I just use my charm on girls at work until they approach me lol
Used to anyway
@haha456 has it right. Don't let it be random
its not that I don't think its good to be random. I don't care if its random or not.
Its just reality is, the chances of you finding the right person by approaching is very slim. Most married couples meet through mutual friends. Because people tend to have more in common with mutual friends. also because friends know you the best so they know who would be compatible with your personality.
@Haha456 yes that’s true most people meet through some common thread whether friends or work or industry or hobby. That’s why online dating usually never works out
@anon15
thats actually true. I've done online dating for so many years and its never worked out. Upon the rare times where it does work out, it is all based on pure luck.
@Haha456 accurate i'd say. I actually went fromTexas to England some time back, we'd been talking for something like 2 years... cool experience... didn't work
@Haha456 any kind of dating isn't down to what most think, take dating on line, that won't work unless both are honest, take so call ordinary dating that won't work unless both are honest, the results of any dating is being truthful
Talking is easy, but making the move is hard obviously.
I tend to definitely watch for signs... but i do get in my head a ton too