How would I go about getting an outside perspective on something I went through?

[Anonymous]

i'd like to get an outside perspective , meaning someone neutral to help me figure out what happened between me and this girl i knew earlier this year.

the problem is i see things through a certain angle and its tough for me to see things from another angle and i need someone to look at this situation from a different perspective to try and figure out whats going on

maybe it could be someone from the site or maybe even real life but have to someone who didn't know me or her well

[Avicenna]

Post it publicly, as a MyTake if you have to. Otherwise we can't comment on it

[Asker]

i've never posted a my take before so not entirely sure how that works , wasn't looking for everyone to comment on this situation. as in the past have got some negative views from some about the time i spent trying to get to know her there

its just been tough to move on with my life when i don't really know what actually went on , have some ideas but my perspective of things is obviously off and why i'd need someone else to try and look through it differently

[boggboss]

Put up the situation then

[Asker]

it be hard to try and explain everything in a few sentences , it went on for over a year or more , how do i explain everything

[boggboss]

I can't tell u how to explain somthing only u know mate

[Asker]

true was trying to figure out who to ask about this , haven't really talked to a lot of people about her but my social circle is kind of small at the moment , it definitly can't be anyone who knows her or her girlfriend's though

[boggboss]

Try breaking it up or highlighting different occasions over different questions

[Asker]

it started a couple years ago , recall i had seen her around my area and though she was hot, then she got a job at our local pub and worked there for a few years. but its tough to explain everything , as mentioned so many different things have occured between us since we first meet