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Why are people (especially girls/women) a bit too brutal/harsh when rejecting someone? (Page 2)
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They lack empathy and tend to overall be generally sh*tty/grumpy/rotten people.
Some of the other answers are pretty good, too.
1. They're b*tches.
2. Some guys can't take no for an answer.
3. Some girls get a power-trip from it.
4. Some girls are scared/afraid of men.
5. They do it as "revenge/payback" to separate men who have rejected them.
First off you have to understand men don't have feelings to women unless they're dating. And thier feelings only matter then because his feelings are connected to hers.
The problem isn't whether women are harsh in rejection or not (in fact they should be harsher). The problem is because men have no feelings to them they can send any mixed signal they want and that's fair game to them. It's women's ambiguity that actually cause them so many problems.
Because they tried to be respectful to other people and they didn't take no for an answer so they assumed everyone's same
Cause most guys don't respect "no" if it's sugarcoated.
Experience. Past hurt. These things make people defensive.
I think some are afraid the message will be misunderstood if they're too nice. With some justification.
I rarely get that, and if I do I just smile and walk away knowing it's her loss.
Without reading other replies I'm guessing it is to make it extra clear that they don't have any interest in the person, to not have the person keep trying.
they generally aren't. if so, I'd attribute to alcohol.
I have never been mean while rejecting anyone.. I know what it feels like and it sucks.
Is that a really common thing?
I mean the harsh rejection. Not just rejection
Many girls reject quietly but then go on spreading the news like wildfire. I think that is even harsher than spot-on rejection.
Some boys are also like that, but since the majority of girls get proposed to or confessed to, their proportion, in this case, is larger than that of guys.
Do you think I am correct or wrong here?
Because they are mean people