Not sure why he does this?

[Anonymous]

I've been seeing a guy for about 7 months. We have a sexual relationship and spend most weekends together. Anyway, he does this really annoying thing whereby he tells me about incidents in work where women have come up to him talking making advances, he tells me he feels uncomofrtable about it, but yet humours the conversation by answering. He says they ask him personal questions that arenindirectly asking him out. He doesn't tell them he is seeing someone.
He also makes comments when watching tv things like 'their not nice girls anyway' and comments on the appearance of them and then Google searches them and discusses it for ages.
I like spending time with him, and without sounding like I'm insecure- I don't understand why a guy would blatantly talk this way infront of his love interest?
Any insight into why anyone would think speaking about exs, other women and commenting on women's appearances at any opportunity is attractive, please let me know
I've asked him many times about it an told him I don't think it's appropriate to be amusing work flirt or not being honest about seeing someone.
Do guys do this to purposefully piss a women off or give a hint?

[Anonymous]

Honey, 7 months in you are not a love interest, it is friends with benefits. I went through that cycle for a long time thinking it was normal but now I can confidently tell you that if there’s no title after at the most 3 months, then there just won’t be. What you’re doing is wasting your time and building your feelings based on hope that he will one day come around. My boyfriend changed the game for me. It took just about 2 months before we made it official and it’s almost a year in. He would never disrespect me by entertaining other women and any man who does that, then tell you about it, is not serious about you. Stick around and play his game if you want but you should want better.

[Wise4myage]

After 7 months, don't you think he'd ask you to be his girl friend by now?

[Asker]

Yeah. He's 40 and I'm 29, he keeps saying he's not sure as I'm about to do my training potentially somewhere less local.
He says the same thing all the time 'that he doesn't know what will happen' etc etc

[Wise4myage]

That means nothing is gonna happen.

[HollyK21]

@Wise4myage agreed. And Asker, if it’s not one excuse it will be another. Please stop wasting your time.