What is your experience dating an older guy?

[TessaMarie11]

I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 34. We've been dating a month and compared to guys my age he's really mature and has his stuff together. He's really fit and strong, and chooses to shave his head bald and sport a light beard. He has a great job, is helpful when he visits my apartment, and takes the lead when we go out. I'm comfortable wearing my revealing tops because I know he can protect me too (he's 6 foot 2). What do you think of this?

[Danny_dan92]

Women typically prefer older men for the reason you stated

[JamesDiaz11]

Being tall doesn't equate to being tough- I've beaten the stuffing out of plenty of bean poles. Also, even if your guy is tough (and I support you dating an older guy generally) you wearing slutty attire is just asking for a guy to say something, then your man is obligated to "defend your honor," and possibly get his ass kicked, stabbed, shot, etc.

It's great to feel safe, but you're honestly putting him in danger, because no matter how fit and tall (tall doesn't matter) he's not winning against 2 or more guys, and a knife/ gun (which often accompany those who say vulgar things to women) beat toughness every day of the week.

[Anonymous]

If it makes you happy why do you need to ask others what they think?

[Danny_dan92]

Amen

[Anonymous]

If your mature for your age, than you stand a good chance of such a relationship lasting.

[Anonymous]

Talking about experience, he was one hell of a ridey ride

[Anonymous]

I assume he was the one who asked you out