Has it been your dating experience that he or she seem like a great guy or gal only to find out over time they are garbage of a person?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[Anonymous]

One guy I dated when I was younger. He basically put on an act of who and what he was just to get me into bed. Told me everything he thought I wanted to hear, mirrored my views, was a big church goer etc. Somebody informed me of his past and all the shit he'd done with other girls, then he tried to turn it all around that he had changed, he was a victim and I was a horrible for not giving him a chance. Guy didn't like rejection or being told no. He became very aggressive, stalking me, sending horrible messages, calling me all the time, writing creepy shit on my fbook page. One day he followed me home from school when he knew my parents were at work. He creepied up behind me and when i unlocked the door he pushed me into the house and tried to force himself on me. I fought back screamed and shouted for help and he punched me real hard in the face breaking my nose and everything went fuzzy. What he didn't know was that my older brother was home from college on that particular day, I didn't even know. He had just got my jeans and I was still kicking to try to get him away and underwear off when my brother came downstairs to see what the racket was and saw me dazed struggling with this guy. My brother Is into MMA, boxing and judo so this guy got put into intensive care by my brother. Bustard tried to get my brother prosecuted for assault but the judge through it out based on my testimony and he was convicted for attempted rape, didn't serve jail time just put on the sex offender register and given a restraining order.

My brother will always be my hero after that. He was always a bit of a dick and we were always at each other's throats but I don't see it that way anymore. My Dad was buying himself a new car and just bought a sporty car for my brother instead.

I married now but I still have PTSD from this guy and am very wary of people and first impressions until I get to know them.

[WhiteBoyChill]

“he was convicted for attempted rape, didn't serve jail time just put on the sex offender register and given a restraining order.”

This is why I have absolutely close to no faith in the US justice system. For whatever reason they are always extremely soft on criminals.

Not to mention this guy practically gets to walk away scott free even though you have life trauma to deal with. Doesn’t seem fair to me.

[Opinion Owner]

@WhiteBoyChill his family home got burned down, he's moved to a city 50 miles away for his own safety.

[ObscuredBeyond]

Most recent crush: single black mom working at a Subway. An old friend of mine that moved to Virginia randomly stopped in to visit, and was like: "She's got enough red flags to make a whole game of Minesweeper."

I'm like: "Aw, crap. And I was really beginning to like that one."

Her own brother comes in later: "She's a troublemaker, man. You don't want her."

"Double crap!"

Almost every woman I've ever fallen for has turned out to be a huge troublemaker.

[NathanDavis]

not once... but I do it a bit differently

first I make sure to know more about someone, and then we go out and hang out later so there's just no room for "surprises" like that

[Anonymous]

Yes all that glitters is definitely not gold when ot comes to women. Which is why I'm turned of by women who are all dolled up or take like a 100 selfish. Generally if she spends that much time on projecting an image she spends that much less time on being a decent human being. It's a huge tipoff.

[WhiteBoyChill]

I don't know man. People in general just tend to be garbage these days so for the past year there hasn’t been a single girl I felt inclined to ask on a date

[ArtemisSilver]

Most of the time it's finding out what flavor of garbage lol.

[msc545]

Oh yes. Boy have I.

[Anonymous]

Yes it was.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

What happend? How they acted in the beginning vs later on?

[Opinion Owner]

They had different values from mine. They talked a lot about their wealth, which turned me off them. They were rude to another girl who hit on them in front of me.

[Opinion Owner]

I think if you’re not into someone, you don’t have to humiliate them.

[Slim57]

Most of the time yeah