If women love BAD BOYS so much than why don't more men strive to be one?

Question

Ladies let the men know how much you hate bad boys in the comments. Tell them the truth and bust this crazy myth of the 10% sleeping with all the women.

Chazmatazz269 · Accepted Answer

Lots of men do go through such phases, and it’s often an attempt to attract women. Women know that because they’re the ones who end up telling their fella he has to cut his hair, cover his tattoos and sell his motorcycle in order to stay with them.
Myth? Ell oh ell! Most of the guys i know either played “bad boy” for awhile or got dumped for a “bad boy” at one time or many. I haven’t known many truly bad mamma jammas, but the ones i have known were literally never lonely.
The problem with being bad is that there are consequences that go far beyond dating and sex. No woman on earth is worth destroying my life and livelihood. I suspect most intelligent, self-respecting men would agree.

PainusNdeeAnus · Accepted Answer

Bad boys from what I see are just losers who hit the genetic lottery women fuck them because they are attractive

these boys BOYS ( they don’t deserve the title of men) these men are LOSERS they aren’t willing to bare the burden of manhood and only know how to have sex and low value women allow them to spread their seed

electromagnetic · Accepted Answer

Being a bad boy is pretty much unobtainable. Unless a dude wakes up every day and chooses violence, it’s all naturally a facade to pick up chicks. Naturally we fall for it too.
the idea of ‘being a bad boy’ is so basic. We honestly cannot even describe what a bad boy is.
Maybe it’s the air of arrogance they carry around with them but that doesn’t even make them a bad boy.
🤔 this is extremely rooted now that I think about it.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

The only girls who like badboys are badgirls. I don't want to lie in bed at night waiting for a police raid or have awkward questions from friends and family about where he gets his money's from. I certainly don't want to put myself in danger by being in a relationship with one.
If a guys bad to others he'll be bad to you.

Brainsbeforebeauty · Answer

50 women could reply saying they don’t want bad boys, but the people saying that won’t listen because those are usually the same ones saying all women are liars, women don’t tell the truth, blah blah…

Lionman95 · Answer

I would say many guys don´t thrive to be bad boys because they either lack the qualities or they don´t want to.

They have no discipline and will power to improve since comfort and quick ypleasure takes away all their energy and focus.

I wouldn´t say that women actually love bad boys they just love these guys attitude. Like bad boys often have an in some way brave and self-confident attitude. They take what they want and don´t care about the rest, that´s what makes them bad in the eyes of society.

Women are attracted to them because they are ambitious and focused on their goal/passion they did or do the work to self improve. These guys never will be the guys that try to do everything to please a woman. These guys don´t let a woman take over their life and make her the center of attention but instead they have their own focus where a woman can partake.

I think that attitude is something guys just take as a rolemodel.

Adaeva · Answer

Girls don't love bad boys per se, they love hot guys even if they are bad boys and don't treat them the way they want to be treated. It is impossible for most guy to be a bad boy that girls love because most guys are not hot.

Hot guys only need to snap their fingers and girls come running and many will also drop the panties. Because, for them, girls are easy, girls have little value. Therefore, they don't treat girls the way girls want to be treated and that is why they are called bad boys.

Nice guys must spend years and a lot of money and effort to find a girl. Therefore, if a nice guys finds a girl, she is precious so he treats her right. However, if a hot guy snaps his fingers she will leave the nice guy for the hot guy.

Anonymous · Answer

They do. And they usually fail at replicating one.

It's only cool if the bad boy has money to live not any less as he pleases and surplus money to do the things he likes e. g. biking. And getting away with abusing women is a byproduct of it.

If women love BAD BOYS so much than why don't more men strive to be one?

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xdVknLqOM9A

A man (trying to) replicate a bad boy without having the money to do so is a fool, that women run away from.

JDavid25 · Answer

Women like the illusion of strength and masculinity that bad boys give.. Unhealthy women will embrace those toxic traits and try and chase and change the man into the dream man they want.. Healthy women will see him for what he is, and skidaddle..

MiamiMadness · Answer

The easy answer is that they may wish to be a ‘bad boy’ but its more then just a look, its a way of life. And what do these new ‘bad boys’ do if they meet a real bad boy?  xoxo BadBoy

LazerBean · Answer

Probably because deep down everybody knows that druggies who go out looking for trouble and are absent in the lives of their multiple children by multiple women are losers in life.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Because some of us have principles. I'm not selling my soul for pussy.

AmyHew1tt · Answer

The bad boy thing is a faze, most often in teenage to mid-twenties girls, thanks to the heavy portrayal of that kind of guy in books, romance shows and general media leading to a happily ever after.

BJP21 · Answer

Only if the girl strives to be the bad girl. I like a tatted rebellious girl with 3 felony warrants and wanted in 5 states. Hella turn on!

Anpu23 · Answer

Coach,
I was that bad boy. Had long hair, rode a motorcycle, worked in the music industry. I had no problem pulling ONS's but no woman would consider me marriage material. You don't take the leather clad BDSM kinky dude home to mom. Had a lot of fun but thats all.

Pohjolan · Answer

Pussy acquired by compromising our ethics is not worth having in the first place.

Minahh · Answer

My ex could be considered "bad boy" straight up he was just abusive and delusional. I'm lucky that I got out of that relationship after a one year. I know many women have such low opinion of themselves that they tolerate this shit. The only bad boy I take is that one mafia boss from wattpad fanfiction that drives Lamborghini and would die for me.

Randalama · Answer

Good question. Perhaps I'm naïve but I don't think most men aspire to a life of manipulation, exploitation and betrayal. A shame that such characteristics are celebrated. A fundamental shift in the attraction dynamic. Women used to covet those that would honor the protector/provider role and shun those that would abandon them but the 21st century has new definitions and rules.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

It's because they don't really know that it's not as simple as being a "bad boy", it's because those "bad boys" are actually masculine.

They score low on neuroticism, agreableness and openness and high on the parts of extraversion that are assertiveness and thrill-seeking.

Having these scores doesn't make you a "bad boy" on its own but these are often confused as traits that you shouldn't have and I think that's why there is so much confusion.

whirled_up_girl · Answer

What is a bad boy, someone who’s a rebel and has tattoos and drives a motorcycle, a player or a drug dealer/other type of criminal? In any of those cases none of those types appeal to me.

LiamJHayden · Answer

Not my thing. I'm kind, but not a pushover. Cordial, but can handle myself when necessary. So far that has worked fine for me.

D_Bone_Steak · Answer

As it was explained to me is women like the butterflies, the feelings etc. A wild dude that creates drama is going to do that more than a boring dude that just works and sleeps.

Anonymous · Answer

Women do love bad boys while they are young and below 30 and actually, that turns many good guys into bad boys over years of mistreatment and neglect from the opposite gender. So after thirty women find it hard to settle down with an actual good guy that stayed good even after being neglected by the opposite gender for a such long time. If you notice you will see most saying "Where are the good men gone " are mostly older women.

thatshydork · Answer

Why should they change who they are to get someone to like them (unless they’re complete and utter assholes, then they should 100% change)?

SexyRedd1966 · Answer

Most bad guys are great in bed because they have nothing else to offer but I believe the nice guys win in the end

NathanDavis · Answer

G@G has truly shown me how fortunate I've been... lol shown me all the kind of things I've never had to deal with

blueonblack22 · Answer

Are bad boys and assholes the exact same thing? Seems that way from the outside.

misogynistic_pig · Answer

I'm not going to make myself a bad man just so I can have sex with many women.

AdithyaR · Answer

I refuse to become a bad boy because I won't compromise my morals to gain someone's affection. If they want me, they'll take me as I am. If not, I'm not interested.

IveGotNoName · Answer

Most. Women. Don't. "Love". Bad. Boys.

Guardian45 · Answer

Because REAL men know that "BAD BOYS" are losers, who can't hold a job or a girl without Fing it up!

WhiteBoyChill · Answer

Because why should I drive myself crazy trying to become something I’m not just so I can satisfy other people? Like no, I’d rather just chill tf out

Ryfyle · Answer

I am Bastard Supreme. Why should I debase myself to the level of a edgy male model with a heroin habit?

Anonymous · Answer

Bad boys don't have discipline or self-control. They are not loyal and they're annoying AF. Juvenile behavior is not attractive.

dolemite89 · Answer

a girl told me i was too nice once, and all i could think is ya know maybe this ted bundy guy was on to something 🤷‍♂️😝

captain_voidwalker · Answer

They can claim they don't all they want but dating statistics don't lie

Gabriel-Chicanito · Answer

Bc, the b----, is just gonna drive/drag you, to the Firelake!.

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps “thriving” is a behaviour that the common male lacks.

beebella · Answer

What even is a "bad boy"? 🤨

CateM · Answer

Because they're not a pos

inhua · Answer

not everyone can be a bad boy

Apple1996 · Answer

I prefer good boys

worldscolide · Answer

I'm married and I don't buy into the bullshit.

legalboxers · Answer

I am me.. dont like it.. fuck you..

Fryday_Knight · Answer

Because I don't care about that. Simple as that.

DeliriumCordia · Answer

What's a bad boy? That has to be defined.

If women love BAD BOYS so much than why don't more men strive to be one?

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