If women love BAD BOYS so much than why don't more men strive to be one?

[coachTanthony]

Ladies let the men know how much you hate bad boys in the comments. Tell them the truth and bust this crazy myth of the 10% sleeping with all the women.

No discipline

Would rather cry and whine then improve

short, small d*ck, overweight

some men actually believe women don't love bad boys

Real men who have been single forever don't buy into this nonsense

see poll ( Coach you are the ultimate bad boy... hands down )

[purplepoppy]

The only girls who like badboys are badgirls. I don't want to lie in bed at night waiting for a police raid or have awkward questions from friends and family about where he gets his money's from. I certainly don't want to put myself in danger by being in a relationship with one.
If a guys bad to others he'll be bad to you.

[coachTanthony]

Police department open up... lol I get it

[smølf]

Then bad girls are deminating the hot young girls marked for sure, and this is what men want.

[Manab]

Yes true, people divide guys into bad or good but assume all girls are good and innocent but the reality is just like guys majority of girls are also bad.

[Ryfyle]

Pure lies. Although your British and have a natural aversion to testosterone and freedom, so it makes sense.

[Chazmatazz269]

Lots of men do go through such phases, and it’s often an attempt to attract women. Women know that because they’re the ones who end up telling their fella he has to cut his hair, cover his tattoos and sell his motorcycle in order to stay with them.
Myth? Ell oh ell! Most of the guys i know either played “bad boy” for awhile or got dumped for a “bad boy” at one time or many. I haven’t known many truly bad mamma jammas, but the ones i have known were literally never lonely.
The problem with being bad is that there are consequences that go far beyond dating and sex. No woman on earth is worth destroying my life and livelihood. I suspect most intelligent, self-respecting men would agree.

[Ryfyle]

Most women are boring and skittish around RDX and printed SMGs.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Bad boys from what I see are just losers who hit the genetic lottery women fuck them because they are attractive

these boys BOYS ( they don’t deserve the title of men) these men are LOSERS they aren’t willing to bare the burden of manhood and only know how to have sex and low value women allow them to spread their seed

[coachTanthony]

You sound more jealous then anything.

[LazerBean]

That's actually extremely accurate. There's a young teen girl I know who's mom unfortunately fell for one of those "bad boys" when she was young. Yesterday was her "bad boy" fathers memorial. I didn't go of course, because I don't know him, don't care about him, and quite frankly it sounds like the world is better off with him dead. But this poor girl was was expected to make a speech about her dad. She basically ended up saying that she's glad that he's dead because now she doesn't have to worry about him all the time. The word "loser" perfectly describes those men.

[coachTanthony]

@LazerBean So all bad boys are losers? Of course

[LazerBean]

By what my general understanding of what people seem to think a bad boy is, yes I would say that a "bad boy" and "loser" are synonyms.

[coachTanthony]

@LazerBean So the women who love them what would you call them then?

[LazerBean]

Most women like that tend to be victims of bad boy "fathers", Aka fatherless. But some of them are just plain old thoughtless, or rather just think with their genitals.

[coachTanthony]

@LazerBean Ok thanks lol

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I am jealous because as a man who wants sec I have to work for pussy these guys get it just because

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Those women who love bad boys are low value women

[blueonblack22]

There some truth to this. Yes bad boys live for the moment. That in itself is attractive to women.

But how do most of them end up? The vast majority of them don’t have the skill sets, timing and luck to be a conor McGregor or something.

[coachTanthony]

@painusndeeanus does making these women or calling them low value make you feel better?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

I’ll feel better when they take accountability I’m sorry if it’s mean but someone has to stop kissing ass and tell them the truth

[coachTanthony]

You mean your truth? Your definition of how they should live and choose men/?

[PainusNdeeAnus]

No I mean the absolute truth that women pick men according to their nature

And what do you mean by “Pick?”

Women don’t control relationships men do women control who gets to have sex

[coachTanthony]

@painusndeeanus Bad Boys have sex they don't get into relationships.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Well tell that to women

[coachTanthony]

@painusndeeanus Women want a bad boy they can tame and break so they can be in a relationship with them. Problem is it never happens and nice guys just don't live up to that exciting rollercoaster of emotions that bad boys give them. It's sick I know.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Exactly

[PainusNdeeAnus]

Low value women chasing an emotional high
Just like low value men chasing a sexual high

[blueonblack22]

@painusndeeanus i would like to believe that and logically it’s true.

But I’ve seen so called “high value” women who are well educated, come from good families and were raised in good communities have secret crushes on “bad boys”. It’s like doctor Tara in Sons of Anarchy who had a crush and romance with Jax. She had an upright by the book upraising BUT she was bored. Jax excited her.

You definitely this in HS and college so called “good girls” who want bad boys. Some of them grow out of it but others don’t.

Also I think bad girls often like nice guys because they think the nice guy can redeem and/or save her for her bad environment.

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@blueonblack22 those aren’t high value women at all

[PainusNdeeAnus]

@blueonblack22 feminism has distorted the idea of what a high value woman really is because it takes into account what men want and desires

[blueonblack22]

I definitely agree that feminism and screwed up and distorted a lot things. It hurts both men AND women long term in exchange for women taking short term benefits.

[electromagnetic]

Being a bad boy is pretty much unobtainable. Unless a dude wakes up every day and chooses violence, it’s all naturally a facade to pick up chicks. Naturally we fall for it too.
the idea of ‘being a bad boy’ is so basic. We honestly cannot even describe what a bad boy is.
Maybe it’s the air of arrogance they carry around with them but that doesn’t even make them a bad boy.
🤔 this is extremely rooted now that I think about it.

[coachTanthony]

And women love them because their egos think they can tame the alphas (bad boys) and change them.

[electromagnetic]

Quite possibly.

[RichieSmith]

A handsome guy who is a cocky jerk is a bad boy but an unattractive short man who is a cocky jerk is a gross loser

[coachTanthony]

@RichieSmith Yeah you are correct.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

50 women could reply saying they don’t want bad boys, but the people saying that won’t listen because those are usually the same ones saying all women are liars, women don’t tell the truth, blah blah…

[smølf]

It depends on what you are talking about. The same 50 women have had sex with bad boys, and this is what counts, what they say after the fact doesn't matter.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@smølf thanks for proving my point 😁 you assume those women had sex with a bad boy 🤷‍♀️ and what if they didn’t?

[smølf]

If they did, clearly did like bad boys for casual sex, that they don't like to marry one, doesn't make a difference.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@smølf I asked what if they didn’t? You just want to keep assuming they did. Just because some “people” have sex with people they wouldn’t marry, there’s some people that won’t gave sex with someone they don’t see as good for a relationship or marriage.

[smølf]

If they didn’t. they obviously didn’t by definition. My point is, do not trust what women say, trust in what they do. If they sleep around with bad boys, then they are attracted to bad boys regardless of what they say.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@smølf don’t go by anyone’s words alone, go by their actions…. That doesn’t just apply to women🙄

[coachTanthony]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Are you a former BAD BOY Lover consumer? lol

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Yeah nope to that

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

But I’ma woman so that’s probably a lie😂😂😂

[coachTanthony]

@Brainsbeforebeauty Don't lie... did you or did you not have Fonzi on your wall as a kid?

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Hahaha no… did have Vince Neil and one of the members from Ratt but was really into John Stamos or Bo and Luke Duke (now they were bad boys )😁🤣

[coachTanthony]

Yeah I was a big daisy duke fan, leif garrett was purdy as well lol

[Shamalien]

Not all women in this comments section are denying it tho..:some admit they like “bad boys”

[smølf]

@Brainsbeforebeauty No, that goes for men as well, however, women notoriously lie about these subjects and are delusional, so the disconnect between what women say and does is far greater than anything else I know about.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

@smølf and men don’t lie? Oh get out of here with that. People lie

[smølf]

@Brainsbeforebeauty People lie for sure, however, the lies and delusion amongst women about these subjects, take the cake

All politicians lie, but Trump lied more than anyone else, by a margin.

[Lionman95]

I would say many guys don´t thrive to be bad boys because they either lack the qualities or they don´t want to.

They have no discipline and will power to improve since comfort and quick ypleasure takes away all their energy and focus.

I wouldn´t say that women actually love bad boys they just love these guys attitude. Like bad boys often have an in some way brave and self-confident attitude. They take what they want and don´t care about the rest, that´s what makes them bad in the eyes of society.

Women are attracted to them because they are ambitious and focused on their goal/passion they did or do the work to self improve. These guys never will be the guys that try to do everything to please a woman. These guys don´t let a woman take over their life and make her the center of attention but instead they have their own focus where a woman can partake.

I think that attitude is something guys just take as a rolemodel.

[Adaeva]

Girls don't love bad boys per se, they love hot guys even if they are bad boys and don't treat them the way they want to be treated. It is impossible for most guy to be a bad boy that girls love because most guys are not hot.

Hot guys only need to snap their fingers and girls come running and many will also drop the panties. Because, for them, girls are easy, girls have little value. Therefore, they don't treat girls the way girls want to be treated and that is why they are called bad boys.

Nice guys must spend years and a lot of money and effort to find a girl. Therefore, if a nice guys finds a girl, she is precious so he treats her right. However, if a hot guy snaps his fingers she will leave the nice guy for the hot guy.

[Jamie05rhs]

Not all bad boys are hot. Jay-Z was a bad boy and he's not hot.

[Manab]

A guy can be hot and nice, no wonder you are 14.

[RichieSmith]

I mean she's being honest. A hot guy who is a jerk is a sexy bad boy while an unattractive guy who is a jerk is just a creep that no woman wants to date. Women aren’t attracted to the guys attitude. They are so attracted to the guys looks that they PUT UP with his attitude. A 5/10 guy has no good looks so he has to be very nice to compensate because NO woman will tolerate a cocky jerk who is also not very attractive

[Ryfyle]

You're a weird kid. Like what 14 year old has professional head shots. It's like your some failed Disney product from 20 years ago.

[Jamie05rhs]

@Ryfyle Don't be mean.

[Anonymous]

They do. And they usually fail at replicating one.

It's only cool if the bad boy has money to live not any less as he pleases and surplus money to do the things he likes e. g. biking. And getting away with abusing women is a byproduct of it.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/xdVknLqOM9A

A man (trying to) replicate a bad boy without having the money to do so is a fool, that women run away from.

[JDavid25]

Women like the illusion of strength and masculinity that bad boys give.. Unhealthy women will embrace those toxic traits and try and chase and change the man into the dream man they want.. Healthy women will see him for what he is, and skidaddle..

[MiamiMadness]

The easy answer is that they may wish to be a ‘bad boy’ but its more then just a look, its a way of life. And what do these new ‘bad boys’ do if they meet a real bad boy?

xoxo

BadBoy

[coachTanthony]

True it's a lifestyle you can't fake it.

[MiamiMadness]

Yea exactly. Plus the term ‘bad boy’ is also used loosely these days. A good looking guy with tattoos and a mean stare can only get you so far lol

[coachTanthony]

what is a better term that would trigger men then bad boy? maybe Alpha lol

[MiamiMadness]

Alpha would definitely trigger people lol hut bad boy is used a lot here so I think they’ll get the point

[PraviteliNahuiValite]

Only bad bitches love BAD (evil) boys. Healthy women don't like almost anyone, because the choices are either 2 piece of shit, bad boys or soy boys. Physically and otherwise former is more attractive.

Where are men who have the capable animal in them but can control themselves?

[LazerBean]

Probably because deep down everybody knows that druggies who go out looking for trouble and are absent in the lives of their multiple children by multiple women are losers in life.

[Jamie05rhs]

Because some of us have principles.

I'm not selling my soul for pussy.

[coachTanthony]

Are you saying YOU are choosing not to be a BAD BOY because you have principles? As if tomorrow if you wanted to be said bad boy you could?

[Jamie05rhs]

@coachTanthony Correct. (Though I'd probably be somewhat sloppy, since I'm out of practice. I'd probably get into a fight and get locked up.)

[coachTanthony]

You're out of practice being a bad boy? lol

[Jamie05rhs]

@coachTanthony Yeah. Lol. It's been a while.

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Word, Jamie..

[Jamie05rhs]

@Gabriel-Chicanito Thanks!

[BJP21]

Only if the girl strives to be the bad girl. I like a tatted rebellious girl with 3 felony warrants and wanted in 5 states. Hella turn on!

[coachTanthony]

It's exciting I get it.

[AmyHew1tt]

The bad boy thing is a faze, most often in teenage to mid-twenties girls, thanks to the heavy portrayal of that kind of guy in books, romance shows and general media leading to a happily ever after.

[Anpu23]

Coach,
I was that bad boy. Had long hair, rode a motorcycle, worked in the music industry. I had no problem pulling ONS's but no woman would consider me marriage material. You don't take the leather clad BDSM kinky dude home to mom. Had a lot of fun but thats all.

[Pohjolan]

Pussy acquired by compromising our ethics is not worth having in the first place.

[coachTanthony]

Bad boys have no ethics or standards that is why women love them.

[RandomGuy1030]

Ethics is what slaves say they have to feel superior

[Minahh]

My ex could be considered "bad boy" straight up he was just abusive and delusional. I'm lucky that I got out of that relationship after a one year. I know many women have such low opinion of themselves that they tolerate this shit. The only bad boy I take is that one mafia boss from wattpad fanfiction that drives Lamborghini and would die for me.

[coachTanthony]

This is the perfect answer... everyone look at this.

[Randalama]

Good question. Perhaps I'm naïve but I don't think most men aspire to a life of manipulation, exploitation and betrayal. A shame that such characteristics are celebrated. A fundamental shift in the attraction dynamic. Women used to covet those that would honor the protector/provider role and shun those that would abandon them but the 21st century has new definitions and rules.

[Snakeyes7]

It's because they don't really know that it's not as simple as being a "bad boy", it's because those "bad boys" are actually masculine.

They score low on neuroticism, agreableness and openness and high on the parts of extraversion that are assertiveness and thrill-seeking.

Having these scores doesn't make you a "bad boy" on its own but these are often confused as traits that you shouldn't have and I think that's why there is so much confusion.

[whirled_up_girl]

What is a bad boy, someone who’s a rebel and has tattoos and drives a motorcycle, a player or a drug dealer/other type of criminal? In any of those cases none of those types appeal to me.

[Ryfyle]

Thats due to you being 34.

[LiamJHayden]

Not my thing. I'm kind, but not a pushover. Cordial, but can handle myself when necessary. So far that has worked fine for me.

[D_Bone_Steak]

As it was explained to me is women like the butterflies, the feelings etc. A wild dude that creates drama is going to do that more than a boring dude that just works and sleeps.

[Anonymous]

Women do love bad boys while they are young and below 30 and actually, that turns many good guys into bad boys over years of mistreatment and neglect from the opposite gender. So after thirty women find it hard to settle down with an actual good guy that stayed good even after being neglected by the opposite gender for a such long time. If you notice you will see most saying "Where are the good men gone " are mostly older women.

[thatshydork]

Why should they change who they are to get someone to like them (unless they’re complete and utter assholes, then they should 100% change)?