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Agree or Disagree: The men that women generally want have access to 80% of women? (Page 2)
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I don’t think so. Given I’m certainly not in the higher status of what women “want” per se. But I don’t even think that’s defineable.
What are the traits of these particular men? Wealth? Muscles? I’d say most husbands out there don’t have these….
agreed. roughly 20% of men live in 1st world countries. 80% of women live in 2nd and 3rd world countries. a man from a 1st world country can change the life of a woman from a 2nd or 3rd world country hence the top 20% of men are attractive.
Not necessarily, the guy maybe a douche and quickly gets a name for himself. In big cities he may get away with it for awhile, but in smaller towns, the girls talk.
I hear this a lot, but even if it's 100% true I can't do anything about it, so I'll just keep swinging and take the hits I occasionally get.
Not true at all. This is a misconception about guys because one of the determining factors of what makes a guy valuable to women is "how in demand they are". It doesn't actually add any more value to them but in societal perception and especially to women it does. And unfortunately in game of dating perception is much of the game. Because women rely heavily on "feelings" in thier selection process as opposed to actual facts. In short if a guys is wanted by 10 other women to a women he holds more value to her whether he has any real value at all. This is why so many routinely make so many bad choices before they actual make a good one. Thier whole selection process is flawed.
What's not true? You just explained why men who have access to 80% of women have it in the first place?
What are you not getting here. Do you even listen to women on this site. Women want one type of guy and chase after another. I explained that pretty clearly. In other words these men have access till these women wise up. Like I've said to you before coach your advice is useful for getting a woman, not keeping one.
Well you're a ANON so I wouldn't know what you have said before. Thanks for the comments.
Yes that’s why high status men don’t complain about dating they are literally dripping in bitches
Answer is pretty much in the statement. Women generally want the guy that most women generally want. 'Agree or disagree'
Coach, please don't tell my wife that!
Text already sent. Sorry man. lol
It's all good Coach. She's asked me to pour you a Rum and Coke.
I am a bourbon guy myself but will not say no to a lady who is married to a fine young man like yourself.
"young man" -- keep it coming Coach.
Bourbon, aye. We have some of that. I don't like that but she does. I'll keep the Don Q, you are welcome to the bourbon.
Sounds good young man Ha
Women want a pretty vast variety of men so sure.
Honestly If men are struggling to find someone the issue is with them not anyone else.
Are you sure? Because as a man, not all body types are promoted in media but as a women, you could be overweight, pale in skin or very dark in skin, you could be from India and we will still date and find you attractive.
As a man, you cannot be too pale.
As a man, you cannot be Indian.
As a man, you cannot be overweight.
Those are just a few examples. Most women want the top percent of men that we majority of men don’t look like.
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS there's a very small percentage of women who think that way. Majority of women are open to anyone so long as they're a good person
Would you date a guy the same height as you and is only a 5/10 in looks? Or do you want a tall man that is handsome?
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS looks are subjective. Obviously I wouldn't date anyone who I don't think is attractive. But to other people he may be a 5/10 sure. I also don't care about height.
There is for the most part beauty or handsome standards.
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS there's what society says is beauty. Not everyone agrees with that. For example you'd think that Thor would be the most loved amongst women because he's strong and handsome, so masculine, but no... Loki is the most loved by women..
It is more obvious with women by far. Like you as a white girl, can date any black or Hispanic or even Asian guy you want.
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS anyone could date absolutely anybody they want, so long as they are a decent person.
Every guy who complains about not being able to find a woman likely has some serious issues which is why nobody wants to date them. Has nothing to do with their appearance 99% of the time
I just don’t understand how you don’t see the bias but it’s okay. It’s because guys are only promoted if they are tall and handsome. Muscular. Masculine standards. So this makes women more selective. Don’t you think women are more selective than men in dating? And they are more picky?
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS that's what the media shows. Women have shown time and time again that they do not actually like that. The media shows what men think women want.
Everyone is picky with dating and they should be. You shouldn't be with someone if you don't actually like them.
Please watch
https://youtu.be/35fiNZTVVtU
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS this video doesn't show anything about how his conversations went. Dude could be awful at conversations. Plus his profile is bland, nothing to really go off. I would absolutely never swipe on someone who puts their height in their bio, it shows egotism.
He is better than the average guy though regardless and it’s true. I was on tinder and I only got like 3-4 matches over a week and only one reply. And she wasn’t pretty
I’m also an okay looking guy by the way
I gave up because it was hurting my confidence
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS it's not only about looks. Looks only get an initial reaction. I've talked to some really conventionally attractive men, I stopped talking to them because they were so fucking boring. I'm on this app to make friends and I was talking to this guy, reasonably attractive, one word replies, only answered my questions with simple answers, so I gave up on trying to talk to him. This happens all the time and it happened all the time when I was on dating apps too. Some men just simply suck.
Men just simply suck? Like all men or most men?
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS I said some. Some simply suck at conversations and some are just horrible people
Does that statement equally apply if you replace the word "men" with "women"?
@loveslongnails absolutely. Some women also suck at holding conversations.
Chemistry takes time to build. I become funny and cool once a few months pass. I was able to make my exes always laugh nonstop.
I was referring to this statement: " Honestly If men are struggling to find someone the issue is with them not anyone else."
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS absolutely I agree. But you never get the chance to get to that point with yawn worthy replies and constant "wyd"ings
@loveslongnails then you should have specified...
Yes it does go both ways.
You wanna know something absolutely insane. I know a girl that only speaks English but her boyfriend has a primary language of Spanish right. So he replies to her with “okay.” “Yeah” like only one word phrases because he can’t respond in English well enough so he only says one or two word in his replies but she stays with him anyway! Want to know why? Because he is handsome, tall and everything. But she always says “because he’s a good person.” She lies though because she later on brags about her sex life with him and stuff obviously because he is very handsome so he gets her excited.
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS she sounds like a horrible person. Sounds like she is manipulative. That's not a great example.
No, she kinda proves that as long as a guy fulfills being a good person, is handsome, tall then he has dating options
Why does she sound manipulative
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS dating someone who you cannot properly communicate with is a huge red flag. If he lives in a predominantly English speaking country and doesn't know enough English to communicate in a relationship then she is the one taking care of everything right? She has control over him. How would he do things without her? That is manipulation. That relationship has absolutely nothing to do with him being attractive it has everything to do with her having control.
So he communicates in English enough to have a job and get by but can’t text in English well enough.
She doesn’t really control him. From my understanding is that she just likes him because he’s a good guy and is attractive for the most part. But the communication isn’t there. She was asking me for advice because their chemistry is really off. I told her to break it off but they are with each other for the sex only. That relationship is all about that.
I replied to your statement directly, so it's GAG that attached it to the end of a chain for some reason, or some random spot. See if this one sticks with your response. It's been happening a lot since their update.
@loveslongnails replies always go to the bottom..
@CAPTAIN-OBVIOUS still doesn't sound right to me. But I'm not going to sit here and try change your opinion of someone else's relationship.
Either way you proved my point. She isn't with him just because he is attractive.
Yeah sure, and men generally want the 20% of women they don’t deserve 💀 chill
Until she don’t want you anymore. Be faithful but maintain your qualifications.
Yeah and the women most men want have access to 99% of men, so why would they pick you?
They don't care about access... they want men in the 99% they want them in the 10% so if they want me that would be even worse for them because i'm in the 1% ... you better be great if you coming my way.
Sounds like a statement about OnlyFans 😁
@Unit1 Running a discount if you want it? Ha
Yeah, nah, I rather expend the funds for an erotic massage with a super nice and "caring" courtesan.
@Unit1 LOL nice
Nah, but they will date with a lot more women before settling down.
Another incel myth.
Keeps the undesirables out of the dating pool
Because they tell on themselves by believing this crap?
Yes they do
Sorry but that dosent even sound feasible to be true.
I don’t understand why women are in denial of this fact
Maybe not 80% but yeah generally!
I usually go after the guys women don’t want and it always bites me in my ass LOL
80% may be on the low side.
I don't even understand the question