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He had to wait for you for forty minutes, wouldn't you be upset if you had to wait for nearly an hour? That's showing that you don't care for his time. Stating he was late is irrelevant because he got there forty minutes before you.
Why is he friend now spying on me? After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
I don't know. Why ask a question irrelevant to the original.
I was curious about this friends behaviour
Are you serious? He's mad because you were over 40 minutes late to your date. You wasted his time. He's mad because he has self respect.
In what way did I waste his time? He was late too. I hoped that he would’ve been understanding
He had to wait 40 MINUTES. Being understanding of someone's situation is 15 to 20 minutes late. That means you were 40 minutes late on top of however late he already was. You've wasted his time by not honoring your commitments to people.
The guy set aside time for you, and you couldn't be bothered to even kind of try to acknowledge that fact.
It means he felt stupid sitting somewhere waiting, you blew it
If it did bother him why did he say ” I forgot about it long time ago”
You are taking his words too literally
What would it mean then?
He didn't literally forget about his feelings. He is trying to say he doesn't value a relationship enough anymore to care
So is he hurt about me being late?
It doesn't mean you permanently ruined it but id be up front and genuinely apologize if you want to save it
If a man was 40 minutes late to meet you would you be upset
Umm men hate it when ladies are late to a date, they feel disrespected but honestly I’d too if my date was late. You should apologize if you want another chance
I noticed that his friend might be spying on me. After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
How’d you guys meet?
I’ve never met the friend
I mean how’d u meet the guy u went on date with
Through instagram
It can be insulting if someone is late, but if the boobs are nice it makes up for it.
by the way I noticed that his friend is now spying on me. After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
Do you have nice boobs?
I don’t want to answer that question
If he waited 40 mins, it likely he has no game
What do you mean? I did let him know that I’m on my way
Nobody waits 40 mins for anyone. The fact he waited that long shows he likely has no options
Plenty of other women better than you sweetie
by the way I noticed that his friend is now spying on me? After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
Well if you sent him a request and he didn't add you back, it means he doesn't want you
He may just be curious about you which is why he's looking at your profile
He did add me back and since then he’s been often first to view my stories
Why would he even be curious unless the first guy told about me to his friend. I’ve never met this friend. The first guy we only used to talk and went out once.
Haha why do you care so much if he's curious?
Sounds like you want him and you're curious about him too. You wouldn't add someone you dont know
I’m kinda interested on the new guy. I liked one of his old pictures and still he hasn’t dm me. I’m afraid he’s just keeping tabs for the first guy. They’re literally good friends and they’ve known each other since childhood
I can tell you dont have a wide range of guys going for you.
What do you mean?
Why would you still pursue his friend if you're so unsure about the entire thing
I do find him attractive. I don’t like to chase guys but he’s literally often the first to view my stories. I don't know if I should dm him. Would that be desperate? I did like one of his old pic to give him a hint
Yea you are desperate. If you really want him, dm him. But chances are he will find out what you did
So dm him isn’t desperate? Is that what you’re saying?
And what did I do?
Because i can tell you dont have a lot of guys thats why u have to go for him
You’re such a negative b! tch. You must be fat b! tch who doesn’t have a personality. I can tell you’re projecting.
I’m not responding to you anymore. Don’t bother to reply.
Sorry but i had to be honest.
I have plenty of guys going for me hun. Dont get mad.
For me. It would depend on the reason that you were late. If you were late because you. are usually late. Then he has every right to be upset with you.
His time is as important as yours!
If it did bother him why did he say ” I forgot about it long time ago”
He said he forgot about it because he is trying to show you he doesn't care
About your non-emergency reasoning
Not the good kind of Not Caring
@mb120101 i didn’t understand. Is he infact pissed off?
Because it did bother him and he is trying to act like it didn’t. Why else would he throw it in your face?
40 minutes? i would have left... ain't no way i'm waiting 40 fucking minutes. wth?
so yeah, he was angry. as anyone would be.
I don't respect anyone who doesn't respect my time. 40 minutes late is ridiculous. You're lucky he even waited for you. I would be mad too.
If it did bother him why did he say ” I forgot about it long time ago”
It's called gaslighting. He is trying to guilt trip you in to feeling bad for making him look stupid. Both of you are toxic. You for making him wait that long and him for his back handed comments.
In what way he was guily tripping me? I’m curious. Also what was back handed comment?
Him saying "I forgot about it a long time ago" is a back handed comment because he didn't forget about it at all. If he had forgot about it, he wouldn't have mentioned it. He instead brought it up to you to remind you that you made him wait for 40 minutes because he wants you to feel bad for putting him through that. He wants you to be reminded that you made him feel stupid. He didn't forget about it, as he claimed. In fact, he probably thinks about it whenever he thinks about you. It bothered him. I could even say it went as far as hurting him in some sense. Him reminding you that you made him wait is guilt tripping you because he absolutely wants you to feel bad. And you should.
You were 40 minutes late. If he was angry I don't blame him. I would have wrote you off as a no show long before that.
by the way I noticed that his friend is now spying on me? After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
If anything not to do on a first date, being late would rank at the top 5.
Obviously he was unhappy at the discourtesy as well he might be. I wouldn't have waited 40 minutes.
my boyfriend often complains that I make us late but he stops complaining when he sees how I look
This was our first date though
40 mind is a long time
Did the date itself go well?
LOL... he did otherwise he wouldn't mention it.
40 minutes is a long time to be late for something.
After that he didn’t want to see again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.
If you sincerely apologize and had a good excuse then he should be over it, if not then let him go.
You don't need to chase and beg someone to be in your life. You won't die if they aren't there.
by the way after that date he told me” I’m looking for my soulmate and a good wife. I don’t want to waste time” I guess he really disliked me Or it was his anger that caused him to say that
It was rude and self centred. Now that he knows what kind of girl you are, he has adjusted accordingly.
I'm reminded about a similar incident in a show called Castle... Except that the situation was reversed... Didn't have any impact on the outcome.
Being late is like telling someone that their time has no value to you.
If he was 40 minutes late, how would you feel?
It’s kind of long time but if you had a good reason he should understand.
How did the actual date go? Doesn't sound like it was a huge hit?
He sounded angry about you being late. Showing up late is a massive red flag.
Was it angry comment? Also it did bother him why did he say that he forgot about it long time?
When he talked about forgetting about it for a long time, he meant he doesn't see you as a girlfriend.
Why?
He isn't foolish enough to date a woman who won't show up on time.
by the way I noticed that his friend is now spying on me? After that date he didn’t want to see me again. Recently his really good friend has been viewing my stories. At first the friend didn’t even follow me when he started to view my story highlights. Then I requested to follow him.
I don’t understand. The friend has been many times literally the first person to view my story. He’s never met me.