Are guns really all that bad? No! It's when it's in the hands of a broken person that it becomes dangerous. The problem with your question you use the word "player" and that suggests a guys who exploits a woman's natural weakness. I've said many times on here a lot of women have difficulty separating fantasy from reality. The want the charm of a player and a guy who in reality is very loyal. While I want a supermodel with a heart of gold. But I'm smart enough to know that just isn't realistic.😆😆😆
Some women have been raised right, have had string male role models in thier life and know what a quality man looks like. But with the disintegration committed relationships in society many women have no strong male role models and have no idea what a quality ma. Looks like. These women have to learn the hard way, through trial and error. And if they don't get too bitter along the way they might figure it out. But not all do.
So, that's my answer to your question. Sorry I couldn't give you a black and white answer. I think the answer largely hinges on your definition of "player". A guy can be flirty and still have rock solid morals. But my definition of players is not that.
I voted A…. I think people need to do what satisfies them. Some people like that some people don’t. I think it’s also funny we immediately associate “players” with men, (u used a photo of a man for example) there are women that do the same thing.
i never considered myself a player, but there was a time after a bad breakup I “played the field” and had different women in and out of my apt. often. Not something I wanted to do long term, but I was not ready for a new relationship
i dont care what people do and how they live they life as long as it doesn't hurt others. but for me being a "casual relationship" person is in my opinion bad cause for the life of me i cannot get that. Who wouldn't want to be in a loving relationship with a partner that adores you and who you adore but youd rather have casual sex with random strangers... so shallow, selfish, lonely, empty... like i dont get it; i think those people just lie to themselves and are selfish and dont want to give themselves into anything, thats like bad to me
People who just want a casual relationship and are upfront and honest throughout the relationship , I would say no. But most players don’t want a casual relationship they just want sex and they usually are seeing,” playing “ multiple people at once without being either upfront or honest about it.. And that is where it gets bad…
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No problem at all, as long as they don't deceive anybody. It's the deception to get the casual sex that's a problem. Not wanting nothing but casual sex. A player who doesn't lie. Nobody should think "bad."
@coachTanthony you said elsewhere that "It's a privilege for a woman to get seduced by a player, someone who knows what they want and what they are doing."
What's the privilege to being "seduced" by men no decent woman wants? Players are predominantly successful with women that have little to no self respect, little to no self esteem, and little to no standards.
As they say "birds of a feather flock together".
Players are bottom of the totem pole in the dating world; considered undesirable by most decent or respectable women. They have "success" predominantly with the bottom of the totem pole or women that most decent respectable men don't want.
Honestly I personally made the experience that the so called "fuckboys" were mostly honest to me and with their intentions cause they didn't need to get me but just wanted to and the average "nice guys" were the ones lying cause I guess they didn't think they could get me with just being normal lol
Soo no I don't think they're bad. As long as you are open with what you're looking for and don't hurt other peoples feelings, it's all good. Not everyone has to seek a serious relationship or marriage or whatever. You do you.
They are usually terribly manipulative so I'd stay away from every man who wants to sweet talk you. They can say things like "oh even tho I'm not looking for anything serious right now, I might change my mind for you" or "I've never been in a relationship. I wouldn't know what to do, but we might try. I'm gonna take you to all your favourite places. We're gonna have so much fun" You get emotionally and boom the motherfucker ghosts you.
When it comes to casual relationships, I think it all comes down to how they treat those partners they have. If they treat them well, take care of them, are being honest, etc. then I think that's more acceptable. It's only bad when they don't do these things, but that just shows you what kind of person they really are in the end.
Not all women are after a serious relationship. Some of us just want something physical that we can turn to on occasion. If a woman is after something more long term, there's nothing wrong with that, but just don't fall in love with a "Player"
I would say no if they are upfront. It is one thing to be upfront about intentions off the bat like, "I ain't looking for anything serious. You wanna fuck?" Although may be direct and crude at least they are honest and that is more respectable than being indirect and ambiguous to get the end result and leave someone hurt and confused from the lack of authenticity from the start.
Whatever you're looking for, if the person on the other side is completely honest about what THEY are looking for, how can it be bad? If that's not what you want, move along. At least you found out before you invested a single moment of your time.
It's natural for a guy to want to sleep with many women. We're programmed to spread our genes as much as possible to carry on our line so that urge will always be there. Learning to control it is something else. Just be open and honest of your intentions
Not people who are up front about their intentions.
But people who lie about wanting a relationship and waste your time for months or years with no intention of being with you.. those are the bad ones...
"No as long as they are honest up front"
is the right choice but we all know it's quite naive, because players are very interested and obsessed with girls who display disgust or at least disinterest on their face in case of eye contact. .
I think they're disgusting. But also I don't think it's a huge deal because it's easy to just not associate with them.
I was marketed as a player, a 'bad boy' and into casual relationships, since I was 19.
25 years later, snd over 30 girls in bed with me - I never consumated marriage/got biblical.
Guess that would make me a tease. Or a fashion icon 😋
Not if they are open and honest with their intentions
I have way more respect for guys who just want to hook up/have a short term relationship/friends with benefits/nsa and are honest about it than guys who play with women's emotions to get into their pants.
I feel like I can say with some certainty that personally, I would have been better off without my experiences with them.
But I don't know if that makes them inherently bad people. It definitely doesn't make them good people tho lol 😅
i mean as long as you're not lying to get what you want, i see nothing wrong with it.
As long as they are up front then I think they shouldn't be ridiculed. If a girl tries to change him and ends up getting hurt, then she should have realized it likely wasn't going to happen.
Casual relationships have their place. As long as everyone is open and honest.
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