Like I'm 31 and found a guy who was 29 but he wasn't happy with my age, he rather date someone who is much younger or older... so like do men find it boring to be with a woman of there own age despite being in there 30's, 40's, or 50's?
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I date both women my age and much younger women, and it's not that they're boring. Women my age can't have any kids and they usually have kids. Women I have met in their 40s usually have kids that they still spend a lot of time with, which makes it hard to make schedules match up for anything more than an occasional date. Women in their 20s and often in their 30s don't have these drawbacks.
We all have our own age preferences. Maybe you’re coming across the wrong men. Or maybe what you’re looking for in a relationship isn’t what they’re looking for.
Younger people are dumber. Older men find it easy to manipulate someone half their age. It's called grooming — you'd be surprised how many men are into it.
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I posted a few days ago that so far I have only ever dated women my own age, +/-2-3 years. I'd be open to having a relationship with women older or slightly younger than that, but I don't think I'd date a girl younger than 28-30, I mean I haven't, but not sure I'd click with them.
Kind of? Some people just want to feel young again. They want to feel nostalgic and recapture the joy of days long gone. Dating someone younger helps with that. So some men date younger women who remind them of their "glory days." And some men date older women to recapture the safe and warm feeling they got from being cared for by their mother. Both of which sound very sad and you're right. It is. A lot men are sad but it's not socially acceptable to admit.
Nearly all of the women my age or older aren't into gaming, science, anime, sci-fi, fantasy, and other nerdy/geeky stuff, most of them aren't artists as well.
So yes, it's entirely because they are boring.
I also want to be married and stay child free, but to a woman who has those things in common with me.A top tier 30 yr old man is going to choose a 23 yr old woman if he can. She looks more attractive, she's less tired and jaded and more sexually open. Start looking for a man 40+ or lower your standards for men your age. You might have an advantage since you don't want kids your eligibility will be high with perhaps a 30 yr old man who also does not want kids as his options are fewer.
I always liked older women, but even for me, after a certain age, I'd be reluctant to commit to a woman who is my age or older.
A guy might prefer younger women especially if he wants kids.
Maybe I think you should focus on guys who don't want childrenNo. Age is irrelevant. But most SINGLE women my age are gross. Which is most likely why they're single.😆😆😆
Women don't have an expiration date. But if a woman isn't a very nice person and then she gets old she doesn't have the one thing that made gave her any marketability. Whereas the the woman who was a nice person still does which is why she's still married. And the guy that married her is smart enough to not let her go. 👍
I do. In fact, I want someone slightly older, just with no kids.
The vast majority do.
I would never date a woman older than me.
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