No and don't look at it like that, But sometimes you need that professional person who is your confidant, who you can deeply trust. Remember no man is an island.
Just guys that I like you know My cousins and a guy I knew from childhood but we didn't meet or see each other in a long time I'm from Egypt it's not really that related it's just we're a bit more religious I would say that's it
Another guy at school I don't really feel they like me I mean when I was young a lot of guys liked me but I didn't notice or really think anybody would like me but now I just don't really think anybody does
You may think that guys don't like you. But actually a lot of guys would be thinking about you right now. You just have to be careful and pick the one who treats you like his queen
none of my relationships have worked out i dont believe everyone has a soulmate but some people are god’s favorite and they get blessed with their someone
I respect your opinion but i dont really agree i believe its all about you you need to sit with yourself and not act as the victim and think and go back to all the relationship and know why it didn't work the type of person they were the common problems the pattern
I dont care what you look like because i for sure have seen soo many beautiful people insecure and have so much judgement and self doubt that caused so many people to stay away from them i believe it all about how you look at yourself and it is not easy i dont think i am beautiful and my self-esteem is in the ground it is all about what people think so me and you and anyone have to work on themselves because i am sure if you were confident in yourself it will be different
Well you can look at it like that or look at it that you have lived and went through soo much good and bad that others couldnt or choose to end it all be grateful
I don't know but I think you just need to go out a bit more and see other people and try to find people in a worse situation than you so you can just feel a bit grateful and see life in a different point of view
Ok , I might see people in worse situations. And maybe I'll be thankful for my life. But it doesn't change my things... it doesn't change that I am short , have lot of body hair and don't look nice anyway which won't attract women/girls to me for relationship. So , I am bound to be alone
Trust me it's not about looks and I know you heard it and I know you're bored of hearing it because you feel so much pain and I understand I can't say I'm on the totally not attractive side but that doesn't mean that I don't feel insecure and I know you might think it's just dumb and stupid and people just tell you oh you're so pretty or whatever but I too feel very insecure I I don't really feel safe and unattractive as a woman and that is very deep pain but that doesn't mean that I will not find love I believe that I will and and I don't want to be lonely I have seen people with great deformities like no leg or missing limbs and they seem much much happier and much much grateful than I am God had given me a body eyes to see years to hear the beautiful sounds on the scary ones and knows to smell the most terrible farts and the most beautiful foods so do I feel insecure yes and it's okay it's okay if you do too but trust me it's all about you if you see yourself as beautiful if you see yourself as handsome and ignore their words their looks and even there not looking it's not easy and it's not a huge transformation because trust me if you don't love yourself right now if you get tall if you get less hairy and if you get handsome you still won't feel the same feeling you feel of not fitting of not enough not looking Nice enough because it's all about you
Hmmm. I don't know. I have always felt and even said to myself I am not good enough , I won't attract women , I don't want to attract women for relationship , being a short man I only would get a short woman and with all other inferior things I'll only get/attract someone who has inferior things and two weak n inferior people can't and won't make a nice happy and strong life at all
So now tell me I want you to read it again what's you wrote and tell me is this your life or not and tell me if you believe it or not because your words are so powerful the brain cannot differentiate between facts and what you keep saying to yourself
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I know she's there, she lives with me.
Ahh hope the best for you
In all honesty... I don't know anymore.
What happened
I just feel as though I had given up in this area a while ago.
Mm i feel you
I suggest therapy.
Okay thank you why i am that ill 🤧
No and don't look at it like that, But sometimes you need that professional person who is your confidant, who you can deeply trust. Remember no man is an island.
I understand thank you
What do you mean by no man is an island
Wait its a book
Wow i understand thank you
Guys see you like a sister? Where are you from?
Just guys that I like you know My cousins and a guy I knew from childhood but we didn't meet or see each other in a long time I'm from Egypt it's not really that related it's just we're a bit more religious I would say that's it
Another guy at school I don't really feel they like me I mean when I was young a lot of guys liked me but I didn't notice or really think anybody would like me but now I just don't really think anybody does
I know it's just myself-esteem but it really just don't know what to do
You may think that guys don't like you.
But actually a lot of guys would be thinking about you right now.
You just have to be careful and pick the one who treats you like his queen
No... next time add a poll
Why?
I used to but not anymore
Why.
none of my relationships have worked out i dont believe everyone has a soulmate but some people are god’s favorite and they get blessed with their someone
I respect your opinion but i dont really agree i believe its all about you you need to sit with yourself and not act as the victim and think and go back to all the relationship and know why it didn't work the type of person they were the common problems the pattern
I think its combo of luck and personal sacrifice
So by luck you mean to met them and personal sacrifice to open your heart for what may come
Exactly
E open minded not shut down people
Id consider my boyfriend tbat person
Ok thank you for writing
After hundreds of rejections, no.
Why rejection
Ugly
I dont care what you look like because i for sure have seen soo many beautiful people insecure and have so much judgement and self doubt that caused so many people to stay away from them i believe it all about how you look at yourself and it is not easy i dont think i am beautiful and my self-esteem is in the ground it is all about what people think so me and you and anyone have to work on themselves because i am sure if you were confident in yourself it will be different
No I absolutely do not believe there is
Why :
Not really no.
Okay
Oh I always hated that statement or belief
I hope so
Same
I’m 38 I never had my first kiss yet.
Because of what
Almost all of my female friends think of me as more of a brother figure. Others just think of me as a friend.
Did you ever ask them why
Because you need change in your life
There is but it’s not what you imagine.
What do you mean
Can you explain
Probably Not
Okay
No, not these days
Why?
Because I'm a cynical old bastard
Well if your 25-29 you aren't really old and the cynical you need to work on it and remember its all about self image
I'm half way to the grave and cynicism is one of the things keeping me alive
Well you can look at it like that or look at it that you have lived and went through soo much good and bad that others couldnt or choose to end it all be grateful
I'll stick with the cynicism, the alternative sounds too liberal
If you keep saying it it will keep being reality
Comes with this life
I hope the best for you I really do thank you
Nope
Is there a specific reason
Not at all.
Can you explain why
Most people never find anyone and they die al alone
Who said that will be you
Ya that's going to happen to me. I know that
Well if you keep saying it soon it will be your reality
You are programming your mind to literally live that life
Ya maybe. But that's a fact. I am ugly , I am hairy and short Man. So, I am destined to be
I don't know but I think you just need to go out a bit more and see other people and try to find people in a worse situation than you so you can just feel a bit grateful and see life in a different point of view
Ok , I might see people in worse situations. And maybe I'll be thankful for my life. But it doesn't change my things... it doesn't change that I am short , have lot of body hair and don't look nice anyway which won't attract women/girls to me for relationship. So , I am bound to be alone
Trust me it's not about looks and I know you heard it and I know you're bored of hearing it because you feel so much pain and I understand I can't say I'm on the totally not attractive side but that doesn't mean that I don't feel insecure and I know you might think it's just dumb and stupid and people just tell you oh you're so pretty or whatever but I too feel very insecure I I don't really feel safe and unattractive as a woman and that is very deep pain but that doesn't mean that I will not find love I believe that I will and and I don't want to be lonely I have seen people with great deformities like no leg or missing limbs and they seem much much happier and much much grateful than I am God had given me a body eyes to see years to hear the beautiful sounds on the scary ones and knows to smell the most terrible farts and the most beautiful foods so do I feel insecure yes and it's okay it's okay if you do too but trust me it's all about you if you see yourself as beautiful if you see yourself as handsome and ignore their words their looks and even there not looking it's not easy and it's not a huge transformation because trust me if you don't love yourself right now if you get tall if you get less hairy and if you get handsome you still won't feel the same feeling you feel of not fitting of not enough not looking Nice enough because it's all about you
Hmmm. I don't know. I have always felt and even said to myself I am not good enough , I won't attract women , I don't want to attract women for relationship , being a short man I only would get a short woman and with all other inferior things I'll only get/attract someone who has inferior things and two weak n inferior people can't and won't make a nice happy and strong life at all
So now tell me I want you to read it again what's you wrote and tell me is this your life or not and tell me if you believe it or not because your words are so powerful the brain cannot differentiate between facts and what you keep saying to yourself
I believe what I said.
Okay 👍 God with you always
I wish at least God is with me and helps me in my single lonely life till my last breath
He is I heard a quote once and it's very nice and it says that whatever and wherever you go he's always there with
Ok thanks