I'm approachable and friendly, quite outgoing too... It's not like i don't talk to guys either... I am an engineering student... mostly surrounded by guys so I do have a lot of male friends... and as far as looks are concerned... I am definitely not a model, pretty average actually. I'm not skinny, but not overweight either... just a little chubby... but I'm not insecure about it. I don't understand why does no guy like me? Is there something I am doing wrong?
There is more to a person than the looks. What about your character, your personality and your intellect? Many people are interested in those 3 assets and not only the looks and physical appearance.
Have you given a thought about changing your hairstyle or your clothing? Those can tell a lot about the personality of that person.
Don't worry about not being asked out. It is actually not all that special because those guys in your age group only have one thing in mind when they ask a girl out. I would say that you should concentrate on finishing your education and getting your degree before worrying about being asked out and getting into trouble.
I am in the same age group as you are and I am concentrating on my education before anything else. Asking someone out or dating is best left when you have no other commitments that may divert you from what is most important in life - your education and future. Good luck.
No nothing wrong with you it's mainly men who are the problem. Honestly there a different categories. Some are gay. Some are narsisistic. They think no girl is good enough for them. Some are stupid. They base there life on other people's opinions and the media. Some are already taken. Honestly be yourself and don't expect to much from men.
Guys who are into engineering generally aren't that socially adept. They're generally socially awkward and inexperienced and insecure when it comes to relationships. They're unlikely to reach out to you if they feel there is a chance of getting rejected. Don't wait for them to approach you. Ask for their help or get involved in some type of group project. Let them see you in action, so they can see whether the two of you are on the same plain or not. Take an active role in class discussions. Show curiosity and interest. Prioritize making sure they feel safe, secure and special. Suggest meeting over coffee to discuss some aspect of your education. Show them how comfortable they can feel with you.
Its easy to miss the signs that people are interested in you. A lot of engineers are a bit socially shy (ask me how I know ;-) ) and if you are an attractive woman they may be worried you will reject them - or not know how to approach them.
There is no reason you can't make the first move with someone you are interested in. Just ask them on a casual semi-date, get coffee, whatever. The worst that can happen is that the might turn you down.
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"Just a little chubby" Unfortunately that's going to turn off most young men who are not also "a little chubby". You can work on getting in shape, or get to know your classmates and hope that after getting to know you, your personality is attractive enough to make someone not care about your less than perfect figure. Good luck.
Post a photo if you want a real answer. People say it's not how they look usually ends up being how they look. Only other reason someone isn't gonna approach you is if you have a horrible personality. You being shy shouldn't be an issue, if a guy finds you attractive he won't care.
So it's either personality or something looks wise. Any other reasons are just lame excuses and not honest.
Send feet and I'll rizz you up real nice. ;)
don't worry about it, you are still very young.
it will happen.
Maybe you are not picking up the signs that guys are interested
u You’re young yet don’t worry about it
We don't chase public toilets...
Yes. You're emotionally unavailable.
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