How do you make sure you can trust someone who is way too attractive?

[_SillyShoes_]

It might sound a bit judgmental (because it definitely might be), but I do think that people who are too attractive do know it (most, at least) and they have so many options.

How do I trust someone like that that is (or should I say, 'seems') interested in me?

[CaptainOverthink]

Thing is.. a man can be super attractive and women may want him to make a move and give off hints and all but rarely women does anything more that 'patrol the outskirts of plausable denyability'.
I don't know him, but generally.. Chances are he might not even notice because it's normal to him and he goes about his own life, if he is less attuned or too aware of his biases, that is. He might not even use the opporotunities in front of him.

And even if they do make a move, thing about relationships is that they are built on trust in people's character, without that trust, how can you really build anything?
It's the foundation and trust must be given before it is earned, otherwise you'll just build a habit of suspision and will push them away, creating the means for the situation you fear to appear.

So trust. I know it can be hard, but this is also the reason to take it slow. Get to know him before you commit to him. Put yourselves in situations together that reveals his priorities.
Don't manipulate the situation with 'tests' but if you go on adventures/activities and situations arise on their own, you keep an open mind about him and see how it resolves.

[_SillyShoes_]

Thank you. This was actually really helpful.

[CaptainOverthink]

Thank you😊 Glad to be of service! Good luck.

[Bricealan]

No way to know that, or have absolute trust in that person. I, certainly have gone out with women who were much more attractive, and the only problem I encountered was the occasional asshole guy that was arrogant enough to sneak around and ask her out when I was not there or was there and the moron made no bones about being pushy with her.

In that instance, I had to break of with this pretty woman because she had an alcohol problem.

You just have to be yourself, and let the chips fall where they may and if they dump you for someone else... that's just life in the big city. Don't let it get under your skin. I never did.

[Anonymous]

Yeah…. 😬😬

I don’t trust guys like this. And I know what type of guy you mean. I’ve been in this situation before.

Men like this are so used to getting attention. And having variety. Taking that away from them is like taking a Dr—g away from a Dr—g addict. Literally!!

I wouldn’t pursue this man for relationship. Because in all honesty. These attractive SuperMans are not really relationship material. There’s a few. VERY FEW. Who are SuperMans and relationship material at once. But those usually have very small 🍆.
Just do what any smart woman would do. Take the sperm from the hot Chad. And marry the weakling who can support you economically.

[Bricealan]

Emyy, did you really say that?

[jennifer_bloom]

I believe attractive men can be trusted if they treat their friends and family well and I have heard online that sometimes attractive guys choose normal looking women to reduce the chances of being dumped for another guy.

I heard about a beautiful woman who pursued a guy who was less attractive and earned less money then her and later when she had an incurable disease and needed constant supervision by a care giver, he treated her like a diamond because he knew he was very lucky to have had her when she was healthy and strong and interested in him.

[Pinay_ako]

You can’t be too sure. Just don’t have expectations. Just enjoy the attention and experience. The moment you second guess them, they’ll feel untrustworthy and that’s not very nice.

[WanderingLoveWizard]

Not all super attractive guys are promiscuous, and they certainly don't have women throwing themselves at them all the time like everyone thinks either.

In fact, most of them are more loyal than you assume. They can get more women than the average dude, which naturally makes women less valuable to them. Most are looking for quality over quantity.

Disagree all you want, but those are facts Jack

[ohsheeT]

You have to trust yourself if you go in to knowing your going to be you.. and there going to be them your going to give 100% and you hope they do the same. And if they don't. Don't be a dreamer and hope they change. Walk away make them change. If they come after then they know they made a mistake.
And if they don't then thank them for showing you who they are and not wasting your time

[MementoMori777]

you should somewhat hover over the edge when it comes to love or relationships, you trust until they push you off the edge, beimg distrustful in the beginning can backfire on you because if they have nothing but pure intentions then it can sabotage things, that of course doesn't mean to be completely blind tho, but trust until its broken

[Anonymous]

It's not about how attractive she is. It's about the effort SHE puts forth. Most really attractive women know it and thier attitude is typically all about them. This is why as you get older the real physically attractive women become quite unappealing. Because you've seen this movie many times and you know how the story ends. I think this is why as you get older these women get more angry. Because thier games eventually stop working. Because you reach a point in life where you just want to be happy and you want to be with somebody that gets you, that is like minded to share life with.

[asphaltrhymes]

That's such a good question, hmmm, I'd wonder that also. I guess I'd probably just have to hope it's not just looks if I was in the shoes, or maybe now I know how it must feel in other people's shoes on either side of being the attractive partner or the less attractive partner or the smarter partner or the less so partner and the lists could go on and on. Sweats 😅

[Sanser]

In fact I think the opposite. He is with you even when he could have chosen another woman. But an ugly guy who only had one interaction with a woman would be hesitant if a pretty girl approaches him... Of course, we are generalizing and being a good and trustworthy person has nothing to do with being good looking, but you get my point. re-state://background_color_rgba (0, 0, 0, 0), font_color_rgb (32, 33, 36), justifyLeft, pre

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

If he could have literally any girl and he chose you, that’s a good enough reason to trust.

[shades777]

Thats a lot of assuming, would you be surprised to know attractive people are lonely because of people who think like you?

[_SillyShoes_]

No I wouldn't be surprised... to some extent, though. Many men have said I was too attractive and don't trust me. I understand the vicious cycle.

[_SillyShoes_]

*Don't worry, the 'on the nose-ness' of it all is not lost on me.

[shades777]

thats why it would make sense for attractive people to date each other minus the ego

[_SillyShoes_]

Yes, but the thing is, ego is always present, and some people just aren't willing to work on theirs. Unfortunately.

[ZXCwWRQWz]

Don't risk something that hurts you to risk until you're sure. Don't risk anything you're not willing to lose, so to speak.

[BlackJeep]

I went out with 3 women who had a lot of IG followers, 75K, 150k and 800k. They just wanted a relationship with someone normal. It shouldn't be about looks

[PragmaticProfit]

Infidelity doesn't necessarily take place due to an abundance of options.

[Ninania]

Same way you trust anybody. Give it time, notice their actions.

[Unknown29]

There’s no sure way, but you just have to get a feel for his personality. If he seems too perfect he probably is too perfect.

[RavVid]

For myself I avoid hot girls because they are to used to being given what they want.

[RyanK9b]

Its quite simple, guys with high status and option will always cheat.
Its biology. Just accept this