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Why do some people say dating for looks is wrong? (Page 2)
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How are you going to build a relationship with a attractive looking woman who has a terrible unnoying personallity who drives you crazy? 🤨
Well when she’s gorgeous, I’m wanting to hug and kiss her.
Read my message again because you definitely don't want to hug a person who is driving you crazy I can reassure you that 🤦🏻♂️
As it is an ugly face destroys a good personality. There’s no translation error in what I’m saying. Personality means nothing if a woman’s not good looking. Without exception, looks matter to me.
Ofcourse the looks count aswell. But I rather have a average looking girl with a amazing personallity then a perfect looking woman with a stinking attitude. But thats my opinion ofcourse🤷♂️
I always find looks being the first thing that attracts you but it isn't 100%, and I've tried I've even done the deed with guys who I don't find attractive at all, but it doesn't work out. You need that umph of attraction to get there.
Personality outweighs physical attraction, but fuckboys get dibs. physical attraction is the first thing we look for and check off. Most people fail to look into their personality
When people say that, they aren't telling you to ignore looks entirely. They're telling you to not only date for looks.
Looks eventually fade and all that will be left is personality so if you are dating for only looks then your relationships are very likely to fail.
I agree. I think they mean not literally that inner beauty is everything. They mean that you should not only be with a woman for her beauty and youth.
Personality ain't shit without looks or money. Money can compensate for a lack of physical attractiveness, but when the money runs out so does the attractive woman. Physical attractiveness holds relationships together more than anything else. A good looking man can beat the hell out of a woman and she will stay with him, if an ugly fucker does that she will leave his ass.
For me, its 51% looks, 49% personality. The looks is likely what initially attracted me to the person
The personality just determines if they’re a keeper
No idea. I rather date someone I feel sexually and emotionally attracted to, instead of someone I truly don't find sexually attractive.
It is wrong because after a while the looks will fade and all you have left is the personality. Even with the looks if the person is awful to be around you are going to want to avoid them like the plague.
It’s wrong to you. But not to me. Personality means absolutely nothing to me if a woman’s not good looking. As I said to me an ugly face destroys a good personality; no exceptions. For me to date a woman, she has to be pretty; no exceptions.
Avoid them like a plague? No way!
I dunno man, getting in a screaming match if I so much as blow my nose the wrong way does not sound like paradise to me.
It is an equilibrium or rather need to like both, a pretty face with no personality is just meat to me. So yeah i don't really see myself loving a woman for only her personality either but only looks don't work either, people are just complex and beauty is a mix of both
Of course we all want to be with someone we’re attracted to. Looks matters. But it shouldn’t be the main reason why you’re with someone.
ur too shallow , looks fade away and we all get older , even if she's pretty and has a good personality , her looks will fade away ,
Because they make the point that if the person looks good but has a horrible personality then you don’t want to build a relationship with them.
Same goes in reverse. An ugly face destroys a good personality too. I don’t care how good a woman’s personality is. If she isn’t good looking, I’m not interested in dating her.
I’m just answering your question why some say that
Why do they say that? Probably because they're ugly and no one wants to date them. Ironic isn't it. For some reason the fattest motherf***ers are typically the ones saying weight shouldn't matter either. 😆😆😆
Even if you marry a world's most beautiful woman / handsome man, they will grow old look like grandma and grandpa. At lasts, only character remains.
Looks fade, personality is forever.
Enjoy being single.
After your first statement, I’m staying single forever.
I date for the whole package. I'm not going to waste my time with a guy that doesn't have a beautiful personality, is attractive and has something going for him.
cause some people think that looks is all that matters.
Do what you want. Just remember that pretty runs out,