What is the cause of me not being able to attract guys who are older then me, but I am able to attract men who are younger?

[SeaStorm1]

My previous relationships were always with young men. It is true that I have had bad experiences with some guys that have cheated on me and I have had experiences with some girls who have tempted my previous partners to cheat on me. I try to go with older men, but so far older men do not seem to be interested in dating me. They keep ending things or I get rejected. Yet I can always seem to attract young men. I'm just getting fed up with no older men want me. That age are 30 and yet for some reason young men are still more attracted to me. I have noctied more younger men do looked at me but i never seen with some older me I also got. Baby face that makes me young then my actual age. What are your opinions?

[Imsmurter1]

What's older to you? Like I'm older than you by 8 years but do you consider that a younger man or an older man? In any case you physically seem fine. I'm sure you can attract a sizable portion of people to determine a favorable outcome for yourself

[SeaStorm1]

@Imsmurter1 what I did mention in my detail said 30 + men some men are player and some 30+ men has rejected and wasn't even ready yet. i just looking to get into a long term if i can't get into a long term relationship with a older men then i will find that is younger then me.

[Imsmurter1]

Thanks for mho

[ShesRad80]

could be a number of reasons but in the end we can only guess, but if a younger guy wants to invest time getting to know you why not give it a shot? aside from your previous experiences, you never know who you may meet.

[SeaStorm1]

@ShesRad80 . I can't get into a relationship with any men that are 30+ but for some reason I can easily get into a relationship with young men that I did previously.

[ShesRad80]

are you dating online? maybe rework your bio? dating is hard for a lot of us these days, but dont get discouraged, hang in there

[SeaStorm1]

I only met with an older men on online dating but didn't even want a relationship or some were not ready. I met young men at social event.

[ShesRad80]

all you can do is be yourself, stay true to you. you never know where or who you may meet at anytime, stay hopeful

[SeaStorm1]

No older men want me

[ShesRad80]

but thats right now -you dont know in your future who you will meet?

[SeaStorm1]

I can't even meet with many men since I can only date men with a learning disabilities. I banned from dating men without a learning disabilities that is made by rule because my mum.

[ShesRad80]

but she's got a point, you want someone who can relate to you on a lot of levels

[SeaStorm1]

Yes but I don't want to have overbearing and overprotect that are is very stubborn and always has be her way and not mine or I couldn't even date at all. she too overprotect and stubborn.

[ShesRad80]

i get both sides of it to be honest.

[SeaStorm1]

She only like that with me and none of my two sisters that can anyone that can want. yep I did ask and they has no problems. same mum as me. talking about my feelings don't go nowhere but silent treatment and agrue about it a lot about dating certin type of men. yet I get ignore and get left out. is always my younger sister that get her way first when is come to my mum. I am the middle child of two sisters.