Would it be a deal breaker if you finally get intimate with your new partner for the first time and you see they have a tattoo of their ex's name?

[Still-alive]

They didn't tell you about it either. deal breaker?

Yup dealbreaker!

It's fine. we always make mistakes

It's fine as long as they either remove it later or cover it up with another tattoo (see pic)

It's a dealbreaker for me if they have ANY tattoo on their body. i hate tattoos

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

To be honest, I don’t think I’d care. He did it before meeting me, would be nice if he didn’t have it but I can’t just bite it off, right?

I’d find it fun and would probably laugh when seeing “Julia” on his body.

The next time we were making love, I’d write another man’s name on my body too, just to make fun of him.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Or I’d write “was here” after Julia.

Like “Julia was here.”

[Still-alive]

" but I can’t just bite it off, right?"

no but that sounds a little kinky hehe

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t think he’d be happy with that kink 🤣

Yeah, so basically, I am quite confident in a relationship and I am pretty chill. So, I’d not really care about his past.

[petitedollbabee]

Yes, that’s a dealbreaker. Partly because they didn’t tell me about it, and partly because they were stupid enough to get their exs name tattooed on them - the only exception to that being if their ex had passed away, causing them to get their exs name tattooed.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea I can't proudly be loyal to someone that has a tramp stamp of someone else on their skin , it's a deal breaker and I don't see them worthy of my loyalty.

[worldscolide]

Yes cause it shows they were stupid enough to permanently put their ex's name on their body.. I don't date stupid.

[VIVANT]

I don’t have the strong feelings on this others seem to. I think it’s kind of sweet. Shows they cared about someone and shows earnestness… they thought it thought it would last. To me these are good traits 🤷🏻‍♀️

[HawkPerception]

Absolute deal breaker for me. It also says a lot about that person's intelligence that they would ever choose to tattoo someone else's name on themselves.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

I think he should have planned to address that issue before he begins to get involved with someone new.

[wiltingrosepetal]

It would give me the ick and I'd probably stop what I was doing after seeing that, buy not a dealbreaker

[IslaTheWitch]

Not really. But I would probably suggest covering it with something else. But still. It's his body and his decision what is tattooed on it.

[Lyndsielee666]

I have my exs name that I need covered but he’s dead now so 🤷🏻‍♀️

[HelpfulWoman]

YUP! I'm gone because I don't deal with fucking morons who ever think that's a good idea.

[mandyfire98]

Ooh that's a tough one. Definitely an awkward situation.

[NikolaiIvanovB41]

I love everything about her, including her imperfections.

[Twalli]

My cousin did this. Luckily for her, his name was Chris, so she added a t, to make it Christ. Her name was a lot rarer and he's stuck with it.

[Lisia]

That's a dealbreaker for me

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

It's fine for me

[dudeinohio]

Any tattoos are a deal breaker for me

[TiaNour]

Dealbreaker of hell