Is it odd for an “attractive” person to be single inevitably if they don’t try? Or will a relationship still happen for them without trying?

I find it baffling if they’re a woman & still stay single, as it’s known women have it easier. The most I do being a 29F is go on dating apps on and off, I’ve been single for several years. It seems like being in a relationship with a man is not possible for me, I get the attention you’d expect as a woman on the app but it doesn’t go anywhere for a multitude of reasons. Which is why I have to ask myself if I’m actually attractive or if everyone in my life is lying to me. In person, I have yet to be approached by a guy I’d actually want to date. I’m not that unapproachable , if supermodels can find love then I feel it’s an excuse when people tell me I’m “intimidating”

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Xper 2 Age: 24

I am pretty sure you are attractive if you believe you are. I wonder if you are intimidating most men and you are unaware. Since single women have been doing there own thing , taking care of themselves and are likely spending more time with their friends it comes as no surprise that some men are not exactly sure what to offer you.

Most men , well, proper men want to feel needed. I guess the best thing you can do is invest in some clothing that is best suited for your body , don't reveal too much as a man must wonder , try some lipstick out if you are pale I'm guessing you are then you can try some darker colored lipstick , a glossy red although it's common and maybe you need a dye job. Do not smile too long with any guy , don't laugh for too long 😂 if you clock 1 minute then most of them will feel hurt. I am sure you have some wonderful perfume. Make sure your nails are always in good shape, wear heals or sandals according to how big your feet are. If you have chubby feet , well you will be looking super cute in wedges. I always think dark blue nail polish looks good on fair skinned women. Make use of smiling as the face of a woman is her most attractive feature. Speak clearly and don't be too kind to anyone , to have a boundary is attractive. Do not be afraid to help a gentleman with anything simple that he needs help with like finding something in a place. Always use SPF, have eyedrops regularly and get enough rest 😴. Hydrated lips always looks good , look at the shape of your head when styling your hair. If he is unhappy just avoid him altogether. You may have an advantage if you are at an event , like a festival or something in that line as people usually stay for a bit longer. Guys usually like women that get attention, I gather you get enough so why not you go out to some good public places with some of your friends preferably the ones you look more attractive than. If he watches you be quiet but make sure you are seen and look away slowly then try to see if he looks at you again then smile at him. You got to be sure the guy is single , if you're helping him find something like let's say in a store then say something that would let him reveal information regarding whether or not he is single or in a relationship. I have full confidence in you as I do know women like yourself generally have very great emotional intelligence and must be better at communicating.

I am not sure how helpful what I wrote may be but I really hope that whatever you desire finds you.

Is it odd for an “attractive” person to be single inevitably if they don’t try? Or will a relationship still happen for them without trying?

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