Yo yo, that's kinda sus if you ask me. I get family drama can be messy, but most dudes wouldn't keep you a secret from them for years unless there was something up.
A few things could be happening - one, he isn't that serious about you long term and doesn't wanna deal with introducing a girl to the 'rents. Two, they might be super conservative or religious and he's scared of their reaction. Or three, there could be an ex or baby mama in the picture he hasn't told them about.
I wouldn't straight up trust that "we'll see in a few years" line. Dudes will say anything to avoid conflict short term. You deserve to at least know what the real issue is if it's THAT bad they can't meet you for that long.
I say press him more on the details. And don't be afraid to lay it out - if he refuses to introduce you after a reasonable time together, that's a red flag he may not be serious or could be hiding something shady. Proceed with caution for sure.
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I can understand that. as mine were bad with my friends
He must be hiding something.
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