How many dates do you need to go on before you become exclusive with someone you met on a dating app?

[Anonymous]

[D_Bone_Steak]

As many as it takes.

I'll be real though...10 years ago is far different than what it is now. You don't even see guys like me...

Partly because I'm probably blocked from you due to my age not being in the right bracket. (Think about it... they only let me see 37 or older as if that's what I want to bang.) I'm 41 and about to be 42... but do I look like the normal 42 year old? Fuck no I don't and I don't want to bang the normal 42 year old woman either. Another part of it is they now require that I wear a shirt... because for some reason I strip the normal dorks of having a chance to bang you.

Look... the online dating world is something that even the U. S. Government has dick slapped with their standards. Craigslist dropped the personals section because of them. The ones still in business have capitulated not only to that but also to feminists with underwater basket weaving degrees with a sub-major in women's studies. Alpha chuds like me are out and now you have all the beta men you could wallow in. You're not going to find a me there anymore... we've been banned and eliminated.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Thankful to AI Bot again...😂

[OlderAndWiser]

It seems that most people are avoiding giving you an answer to your simple question. OF COURSE it depends on your state of mind, how well the dates work, etc., BUT, for me, that usually happened somewhere between the end of the third date and the fifth date. After five dates, if I didn't feel that desire, I assumed that it wasn't going to develop.

[SphynxUK]

Depends.
I know from the first meet whether it’s them I want them or not. I would have texted plenty before meeting, so if they got a date they’re almost certainly a good match from my perspective. If they were on the same page I guess we’d be exclusive. I just do what feels right. I don’t need a set number of dates to determine what I already felt on day 1.

[kylee2437]

I don’t think the amount of dates matter. I think it depends on where you two stand in regards to readiness. If there’s things that you feel like are important that you have yet to learn about that person, I wouldn’t recommend going exclusive.

[Xia1994]

3 plus dates with calling and texting in between then if we mutually are into each other and are compatible we become friends but it's a romantic sort of friendship😊, this is so we can build a relationship and know each other better and I wait for the guy to get us out of that zone by asking me to be his girlfriend and hopefully wife too one-day this is a summary of it all though lol.

[Xia1994]

oh you said dating appppsssss😭 I try not to use those and rely on in person dating tbh

[NathanDavis]

if I am going out with someone... then I'm not thinking of anyone else at all

and so far, they've felt the same way about it

but I've never done anything through apps so, I guess it's very different then...

[SolitarySolace]

If were talking using dating apps, zero because those apps don't work. It's impossible to meet anyone on them let alone anyone genuine and good. I used to use them back in the day and did meet a few of my exes on dating apps. They all cheated on me. So I guess if you want beautiful women who will cheat on you continue using dating apps 🤷🏻‍♂️

[Xia1994]

yeah tell them Solace! those things are a big fat scam!

[Lionman95]

I would say at least 3 or 4. The reason is I need time to get to know someone and it´s a serious decision to me so I wouldn´t want to regret it quickly just because I felt pressured into a relationship.

[Xia1994]

i hear ya there!

[Cody2004]

My honest opinion here if I was at the point where I was on a dating app I would be fucking everyone left and right because I wouldn't be on there for anything serious it's literally meeting somebody online

[Xia1994]

dang he said left and right fr 😭💀

[Cody2004]

💀 I'll put that on my gravestone

[Xia1994]

loooool 😂😂😂😂😂😭

[JacobJordan]

I am married but when I was dating it was exclusive from the first date. That is the entire purpose of dating. If it isn't exclusive just ask the guy to hang out. A date is exclusive always has been

[KrakenAttackin]

@JacobJordan. This is spot on correct. When people date multiple people at the same time how can they possibly form a bond with one person.

[BoopBoopBeep]

I had a first date last about 30 hours once. That's different than 2 hours at a movie and 15 minutes walking back to your car. Depends on how you two hit it off, there is no hard and fast rule.

[Fireguy17]

there is no set number.
It could happen after just a few dates, or it could take a month or more.
You will know when it is time.
You will just think one day yep, I like where we are and where this is going.

[IslaTheWitch]

I don't meet people through dating apps. If we are dating, there are no other men for me. It's a matter of respect for him and myself

[Drew-1990]

I'm here for the answers I'm honestly curious myself. I know there isn't a magic number but there has to be a range.

[Sameone]

Worst experience is dating app so i will say 10 or More

[kylee2437]

I agree. A lot of damaged people that just ended relationships end up on there. Definitely takes a lot more time to figure out those people

[Sameone]

I think this people whe use dating app they won't do same what happened to them like
I date this girl from tinder after months she ask me to be her boyfriend i said yes after two weeks she changes 360° when i ask her what is problem she said i love someone else I was think her ex said no i meet him last month when i ask her so way you won't to be my boyfriend
She said i don't know

[Sameone]

And the big problem is WE brokup and we still frands we meet sometimes

[bobby_bush_eater]

It very much depends but I'm not the type of person who entertains multiple people simultaneously. Id prefer anyone I'm potentially serious about is the same way

[PeachyPie93]

No idea, I never met anyone serious from an app.

[WhitneySnow]

I think you have to agree mutually that you’re going to be exclusive

[KrakenAttackin]

After the first date I don't date anyone else until I see how things will play out. If you are dating multiple people you spread your intimacy too thin IMHO.

[Nikki1989]

There is no set amount, but I would never rush into anything.

[Likes2drive]

That’s hard to do as a number because it’s when I feel it’s going somewhere that I would make that decision but it’s probably around 5 dates

[DreamLife7]

🤣🤦🏼‍♀️ you can't be serious. He is not thinking about you, there are multiple options and he's not interested.

[Anonymous]

Honestly, one. I’ll know after one if i want to continue long term or never see them again

[jahaims]

That would be decided on the first date. I only would date exclusively.