How do I let this girl down easy?

[Anonymous]

I lost feelings for this girl I met online. At first, I thought I really was into her, but the feelings started fading away. Now, I just don’t feel like talking anymore. And I don’t want to hurt her feelings. I just realized we’re really not similar at all. I do enjoy her personality, but more as a friend. And even then, I have such a busy life. I don’t want her to get too attached to me, and let her hopes up. Plus, I’m not into bisexual women as well. They’re just not for me. She talked to me at first in wanting a girlfriend. So it’s only right I let her find true love. I’m only holding her back.

[Rosexøxø]

Read your own question to her.

Maybe add in how you really didn’t want to hurt her so you searched online, asking anonymously, on what would be the best way to do that.

You could read it as her or just say that and change it to “you” when you talk to her. Literally don’t change it. Crucial facts of your intent will help.

I honestly think reading it would better. Showing her the question and MAYBE some comments but don’t really show the website because maybe she would get the wrong idea? Maybe not. It’s a common site anyways. She can check it for herself and see hot it can be if she ever got picky, but from what you shared I think you’re both pretty much ready to move on 🤷‍♀️ so have no guilt about it.

[Rosexøxø]

Best to you!

[Asker]

I just left her a message say what I wrote on here. But also what great qualities she has. I’m not gonna let her know that I talked about her here. I already hurt her feelings, and she doesn’t have to know that I care about her. I’m the bad guy in this situation either way. It started raining hard after I left her that message. I think it’s just the universe saying it’s sad, but it had to be done.

[laly520]

talk to her n let her know

simple n direct

[Asker]

It sucks because she’s like so into me, but I hate to break this girl’s heart

[laly520]

she better know sooner

[Asker]

I left her a message, and it killed me to do that. I understand if she hated me for the rest of life. I’m a piece of trash.

[laly520]

no u aren't
its fine
sometimes one just lose feelings or get aware none r left

[Asker]

I am, I hurt someone who didn’t deserve that. I’m not a good person.

[laly520]

its ok it happens all time
u r good person for being honest with her n not wasting her time

[Asker]

So I checked up on her, and she stopped posting stuff online. I really did hurt her feelings😞😭😭😭. Why did I do this to her? I just feel so sad and bad for her.

[Anonymous]

Is this woman on this website…

[Asker]

No she’s not