@JHAYES317 because we like feeling feminine with a bigger man. It’s like being with a strong man it’s the same thing. You can always just date a girl that’s shorter than you it’s not a problem. If I weren’t 5”8 I wouldn’t prefer someone over 6 foot.
@lostandfound_x not really. A strong man makes sense because they can protect you. A tall man could be totally useless in that regard if they are skinny…
I wouldn't say I care but I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. I prefer short women I won't date a woman my height only because I'm super tall. I'm 6'5 if a woman is my height or taller she better be in the WNBA
@JHAYES317 I don’t meet too many men that are taller than me, but No. I initially thought I was taller than my boyfriend when I first met him. An old old old coworker of mine was about 4’10 and he was attractive. His wife was just a few inches taller than him.
@Dinklex3 ok that’s good to hear…I’ve been rejected specifically for being shorter than a woman before…she apparently thought I was the hottest guy in the group then she stands up, realizes she’s an inch or two taller than me, and suddenly she loses interest immediately. It sucks
@Dinklex3 not the women I’ve been interested in where I live…but yes I’m aware that there probably are a small number of women who don’t strongly prefer a guy to be taller than them.
@Dinklex3 good for them? That doesn’t help us shorter guys out…not a whole lot of women shorter than 5 ft…let alone ones that would date a guy 4’11” - 5’1” tall…
I might be kind of fat and out of shape, but I can still walk a mile uphill on a trail at 7000 feet elevation. If she can't do that because she's too fat, then that's too fat.
Dwarfism is a category of medical conditions which cause short stature but also disproportionate body parts…you can be under 5 ft tall genetically and not be a dwarf…
@JHAYES317 I think its more of a gender role than an insecurity like if she was bigger than the guy girls would feel they are the dominate person in the relationship so its just a natural psychology thing
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I prefer a guy that’s at least 6 foot because I’m quite tall myself
@lostandfound_x how tall are you? Like 5’10”?
@JHAYES317 no lol 5”8
@lostandfound_x then why can’t a guy be 5’8” - 5’11”? Are you insecure if you are as tall or taller than a guy in heels?
@JHAYES317 I’m not insecure but I’d prefer to feel shorter than my man and yes I’d like to wear heels around him
@lostandfound_x that literally means you are insecure if you would feel unfeminine being with a shorter guy
@JHAYES317 no I think as a short guy you feel insecure that some girls only want to date tall guys
@lostandfound_x that’s not insecurity that’s just reality…there are studies that suggest 95% of women would not date a man shorter than them…
@JHAYES317 because we like feeling feminine with a bigger man. It’s like being with a strong man it’s the same thing. You can always just date a girl that’s shorter than you it’s not a problem. If I weren’t 5”8 I wouldn’t prefer someone over 6 foot.
@lostandfound_x not really. A strong man makes sense because they can protect you. A tall man could be totally useless in that regard if they are skinny…
I wouldn't say I care but I'm attracted to what I'm attracted to. I prefer short women I won't date a woman my height only because I'm super tall. I'm 6'5 if a woman is my height or taller she better be in the WNBA
yes. i have a vendetta against tall people, they ruin the gene pool.
Nope.
I’m a face person, I don’t really notice height.
@Dinklex3 so if they were shorter than you that wouldn’t make you less attracted to them?
@JHAYES317
I don’t meet too many men that are taller than me, but No.
I initially thought I was taller than my boyfriend when I first met him.
An old old old coworker of mine was about 4’10 and he was attractive. His wife was just a few inches taller than him.
*Too many men that are shorter than me**
@Dinklex3 ok that’s good to hear…I’ve been rejected specifically for being shorter than a woman before…she apparently thought I was the hottest guy in the group then she stands up, realizes she’s an inch or two taller than me, and suddenly she loses interest immediately. It sucks
@JHAYES317 Everyone has preferences/ dealbreakers.
Plenty of women aren’t concerned about height.
@Dinklex3 not the women I’ve been interested in where I live…but yes I’m aware that there probably are a small number of women who don’t strongly prefer a guy to be taller than them.
@JHAYES317 Majority of men are taller anyways.
@Dinklex3 good for them? That doesn’t help us shorter guys out…not a whole lot of women shorter than 5 ft…let alone ones that would date a guy 4’11” - 5’1” tall…
Five-seven to five-eleven is perfect for a man.
@handsomelad70 For you, sure.
@Dinklex3 I thought you didn’t care about height lol
@JHAYES317 ? I don’t.
Face, legs, butt and of course, BOOBS !!!
appearance doesn't matter... I won't joke, laugh or discuss with an appearance ffs...
To be honest, I'd have no problem dating woman well over 6'0, but I would not be attracted to someone under 4'8, which is how tall Simone Biles is.
Simone Biles is FOUR-EIGHT? She's an inch shorter than my paternal aunt Marjorie, who was regarded a dwarf.
I might be kind of fat and out of shape, but I can still walk a mile uphill on a trail at 7000 feet elevation. If she can't do that because she's too fat, then that's too fat.
I'm not attracted to slendermen or dwarves. But if you're none of those, there is no problem.
Dwarfism is a category of medical conditions which cause short stature but also disproportionate body parts…you can be under 5 ft tall genetically and not be a dwarf…
I don’t care about height…weight does matter a bit…I don’t think I could seriously date a woman who significantly outweighed me…
Yes! I am attracted to 5'11 or taller men because I'm attracted to a bigger size. I don't want to look taller than him when I wear heels.
What is your height out of curiosity?
@babygirl_S so that’s an insecurity on your part then…
@JHAYES317 I think its more of a gender role than an insecurity like if she was bigger than the guy girls would feel they are the dominate person in the relationship so its just a natural psychology thing
@JHAYES317 Insecure short guys like you always have a problem feeling rejected
@Babygirl_S I’m not the insecure one…you’re the one who won’t date a guy shorter than you…
I have always preferred men around my height. I did however make an exception for my husband, who is 5" taller than me.
A girl's weight does matter to me.
So in return I accept it when for a girl height matters :)
Not to me tho but I do like small women more if I were to choose, they are adorable lol
Ofc not. There is more to a person than how they look!
kinda does and kinda dont, i would like to have girl smaller than me, but it isn't dealbreaker if she is taller
Not really for me but i do prefer if she is shorter than me and usually prefer to be under 5.5’
Oh i read that wrong lol as long as she is not obese is the important part but i like girls anywhere from skinny to chubby
Yeah, well, it shouldn't but, lets face it, most guys and girls are shallow af
No everyone is okay dating short fat people obviously
No height doesn't matter. Guys can be jerks in all sizes and guys can be sweet in all sizes.
Of course it does, I don’t want a girl whose belly sticks out more than her boobs 😋
Few dudes do.