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I have zero sympathy for girls not getting everything they want when they’re dating. Even below average looking girls are very picky and it’s genuinely delusional. Guys have to be above average in nearly every way to even have a fraction of the access to sex that women get to have for just merely existing.
Dating isn't about sex though lol. Even when girls lower their standards guys still completely suck and will try to use them for sex, never love. That is why even us ugly girls will choose a hot guy first because if you are gonna be used, the guy should at least be hot.
Why do you always have to turn everything into a rant about being ugly it’s too Daria 🤣 Ofc Dating is about sex u dork or else everyone would just be asexual acquaintances to each other. And what does lowering your standards mean? Why do girls always act like men are a work in progress while they’re these perfect beings that get to sit back and judge us?
LOL cuz you always say ugly girls get sex but guys don't unless they are special in someway but girls usually want love and not sex, but ugly women rarely get love. And to lower your standards is to go for ugly or broke guys lol. And because it's men who let women act like that. If men didn't put up with shit from women and stopped fucking everything they can and actually had standards women. They wouldn't be able to act like that and the trash women wouldn't think they where amazing just because they look good. It's men who feed women's delusions lol.
*standards for women
@PeachyPie93 but these girls that can say I don’t want ugly or broke guys are usually themselves ugly or broke, guys don’t get to have that privilege 😂 and no way it’s women that have opened Pandora’s box by being such hoe hoe’s now a days 😝 hookup culture wouldn’t exist if women didn’t allow it
LOL that is true but because guys fuck them it makes them think they are worth more than they actually are since they get the attention.
@PeachyPie93 you just perfectly described the concept of Hoflation 🤣
No dating isn’t about SEX it’s about spending time together going and doing stuff together and love each other not about sex everyday or anything along the lines of that yes sometimes have sex but not all the time 🤦♀️
I agree, @LaurenM1997. Sex isn’t everything. There is more to life than sex.
@CriticalCatDad123 that’s true
I agree
The point is getting sex within commitment too, not just sex and then a break-up, all for nothing. The point (well for me and other women too) is finding men that are dating to settle down and have kids aka dating with intention, not just dating just to have sex and nothing else.
Actually I do think women have it hard but still not as hard as men due to the fact women don't date 80% based on looks like men do. The rejection rate of men asking out women is waaayyy higher than the rejection rate of women asking out men. I do think women need to start asking out men due to this fact.
Only immature and stupid men say that.
Most people are difficult to put up with and it isn't always easy to find someone that fits us just right to be with in particalur long term.
Do you know why you women have a hard time with men? It's because the majority of you are interested in bad boys and will dump a good decent guy in a blink of an eye, calling him creep or weirdo or such things
The only reason why women have it hard in the dating world is because they are too picky, and it is that pickyness that makes it hard for men also.
So we can get a marriage-minded man still? That's the point. Getting sex from any man or just being a man's forever girlfriend... any man would be already in line for that. Getting marriage from a man is the deal.
No, I don't think women have it easy when it comes to dating. They can have sex easier, but that can't possibly compensate for all the other drawbacks of dealing with guys.
The hard part is finding the right man that will commit and not waste our fertile years, give us kids on time.
Yes, ma'am, I agree. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me, as well, if that's alright. Thank you very much.
I've have you as followed. You're welcome
@ChicanaChick
Listen, if you want kids, have those kids while you still can. Never rely on a guy to make your dreams come true. Your inability to have kids after a certain age is not his problem and he won't care. You cannot force him to care.
I am not expecting to find the right guy before 40 either. But I am definitely having those kids even if it means doing it without a husband
@ChicanaChick
Stop expecting for the right man to come along. What will end up happening is that you will comr off as desperate, end up marrying a subpar guy who won't necessarily make a good husband or father. You will just end up divorcing him 10 years later.
@nastyb good men who want to be fathers exist. They are just easily overlooked. I am one of those men.
@Awesomesauce2005
Im looking for someone educated, gainfully employed. Nowadays lotta guys aren't eithet
no we don't. we just rightfully think that you have an easy time to get fucked while we don't.
but if we only get men to have sex with for years and years, years dating and no commitment, we're screwed and can be alone at some point
yeah that's a completely different issue tho. my answer to your question is still correct xD i never said you should be fucking around like crazy. i'm saying you "could" do that more easily than any man. and men happen to want to do that a lot, so that's why they're jealous.
You realise at least about 80% of Single Guys aren't even Dating, That's why you Girls keep going on dates with same types of Guys.
https://www.youtube.com/embed/C9ONWHXCsrkWe have it worse because we have more to lose.
Pretty much it. The consequences are higher for us if we don't select right and never get a marriage proposal out of him. We're the ones with a limited time to have kids.
I don’t have it easy was emotional abused in my last relationship
A woman knows if she’s gonna get laid. We never know
But that's not the point. If I wanted to I can get sex from any man. The point is attracting a marriage-minded man that gives me kids within our limited, timeframe, within our good fertile years.
We don't win anything by just dating forever and getting sex from many men. From a biological point, that's losing for us.
You said dating not marriage
I'm dating to get married... that's the point. I'm not dating just to date.
There are two types of dating. Dating to settle down (aka dating with intention) and dating just to date.
@ChicanaChick. We don't "think' you have it easier, we "know" you have it easier.
@KrakenAttackin
But I would be losing if I can't attract a marriage-minded man and only attract the types that want no strings attached or just a girlfriend to have fun with. I would also be losing if I were to ever get pregnant with just a boyfriend and then I would have a higher risk of being a single mother. That's losing to me.
Living years with a guy and even having a child with him without getting commiment in return... that's losing.
Easy fix. Don't have sex before marriage. Less of an easy fix, men are refusing to get married. Maybe advocate for men and figure out why men don't want to get married and maybe then a guy will want you. @ChicanaChick
Otherwise, have fun being single
You are right. Men want affection women want commitment. Men aren’t getting affection so they won’t commit and vice versa.
Ignore the haters. This world is hard for everyone
and in turn, some women are catching up by refusing to give out sex if he isn't giving commitment first. Yeah everything is so hard for everyone.
Unquestionably so.
Try online dating as a man. You'll see.
Men have it harder dating. Women have it harder getting the ring, commitment kids etc..
We're the ones who end up with bigger consequences if we can't get the ring, commitment and kids or don't get that on time. If never get that and only end up getting a boyfriend to live together, at some point we can't have kids anymore, destroying one of our main ability, our main market value; youth and fertility. Or if we only get kids but with a boyfriend that either bails or even if we do get child support out of him, that doesn't take away that we would still be a single mother and weren't able to get a ring and commitment out of him, destroying our market value because then very fewer men are going to want to date her, raise someone else's child and commit to her.
Maybe if women today were actually worth having children with they wouldn’t be having such a problem
Chicky, I literally said women have it harder getting the ring etc.. I'm agreeing with you.
The majority of guys are seeking a long term committed relationship.
indeed but how many of them are actually going to propose and give her kids... that's the point
Why should men give her kids? Does she deserve kids? What has she done to prove that she is commitment material? A lot of women don’t deserve kids and aren’t commitment material
@CriticalCatDad123
So that's not a real long-term committed relationship. There is no commitment so it contradicts your statement. If he won't give her that, then she's not a real girlfriend but a casual girlfriend to have fun with. That's all.
@CriticalCatDad123
He wants a committed relationship but won't give her commitment and kids... sounds like an oxymoron. That's still casual dating under the diguise of ''boyfriend and girlfriend''.
No point in having a girlfriend in the first place to be honest. Why should a man have a girlfriend? He has friends and family and could always get a dog or a cat. I personally have been blissfully single for 9 years now and I have a cat and friends and family and have been happier single as opposed to in a relationship I’ve always been so unhappy with a woman you have no idea. Not worth committing or having children she’ll just use against you someday
If he doesn't trust her then it's not a real committed relationship with the purpose of commitment.
Welcome to dating in the real world today for men. Women are untrustworthy and manipulative and only want something from men they don’t want actual love
@CriticalCatDad123
If you're happy being single with your pets and family then you can do whatever suits you. As long as you're happy that's all that matter. What it's not good is overgeneralizing a whole gender. My parents are still happily married. My mother never failed him and vice-versa.
Do you have heard about sperm donors?
I personally might consider it. Myself
If I was not to find decent guy for commitment
Of course only if you can afford being single
Also men have higher standard in looks.
Yes I have but I would be giving that child a miserable life. They are going to eventually ask for who their father was.
Just tell them truth. Many women are raising kids through this
There are YouTube channel of people having kids through sperm donor.
youtube.com/shorts/NH9hSiDUNnY?si=nKfUgtf2R2ndC2_9
You don't need to do it. If you don't want to. But this is a option. Anyway
Comparatively speaking to men you do have it easy. That doesn’t mean it’s easy in general though, just a lot EASIER
You essentially spent the entire post contradicting your own argument
Yes, some men think that you can easily get you
Depending on the woman, sure they do 😬😉😬😉