We have it hard too. If too many men just want a girlfriend to have a great time with, to live together, be romantic with but won't commit and give her kids, we lose right there. That's time and years he would be taking away from us. I've been doing my vetting process for a while now and I haven't had any luck yet.
A woman that can only get a man to have sex with, or be his girlfriend but can't get a man to commit is losing right there. From a biological point of view, we're losing right there. If out of 100 men available, only 5 of them are the types to settle down, then we have it hard in the dating world too.