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Ladies, in your mind, opinion or experience if any, will let you change your mind about a guy friend where you said to him twice "I just wana be friends and/or "we are and will only be friends" then change your mind and go from friends to lovers. And do you regret it or not?
Guys, in your mind, opinion or experience if this happened to you and you got the girl you wanted to be more than friends with, and have a real relationship with, what did you do to change that and were you happy in the end?
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So in short, ladies you started dating the guy you said you will only be friends with. You changed your mind about him and now dates that friend who at first you only wanted to be friends with. If you have such an experience, do you regret going into a relationship or not?
And guys, you got told "I only want to be friends" but then landed the girl anyway that said she want to be only friends. Were you happy when you got her, did it last, was it what you expected?
Hope it clarifies that
And guys, you got told "I only want to be friends" but then landed the girl anyway that said she want to be only friends. Were you happy when you got her, did it last, was it what you expected?
Hope it clarifies that
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Well a Boyfriend provides and pays. A friend splits the bill. What are u doing currently
Let me clarify the question a bit more for you. If you had a guy friend that you are close with, but you said to him two different times..
"I just wanna be friends" and "all we will be is friends"
WHAT will make you change your mind to go from friends to lovers with that guy.
When you clearly know he likes you and he wants to be more than friends with you but you just wanted to be friends with him, but then you two became lovers after all , like boyfriend and girlfriend.. the exact thing you said won't happen because you clearly said just friends...
WHAT will make you change your mind to go from friends to lovers with that guy. And if you have such an experience did you regret that or was it a lasting relationship?
How can I know he likes me. I can’t read minds. Well for first start treating her like a man. Drive her to dates. , pay the bills , start doing boyfriend responsibilities and imply your intentions
By your edit u aren’t even sure if u want her. It means u don’t like her
sigh... He told you he likes you, he told you he wants to spend more time with you, and he is not there to waste your time. He is really into you and doesn't judge a hair on your head. Even with all the dark and sad pst event you told him about your life. He wants to be more than friends because he wants you for YOU and would love to take you out, crab bite and just get out of the house have fun and spend more time together. YOU and HIM are close. You share a lot with each other. SO he made his intentions clear. He told you. Your friend treats you better than your exes. Does more than your exes. Respects you. Treats you like a queen and is always the go to guy when you need someone to talk to or when shit hits the fan. The person you trust. But at first you wanted ONLY friendship. Noting else. You told him, you will only be friends and thats it. BUT then you changed your MIND and suddenly decides to give it a shot with your friend. What would cause a sudden change of heart like that?
I made the edit so the question is more clear to people like you who doesn't answer what I am asking. I never said I changed my mind about her. I am intrigued about the sudden change of heart after getting rejected 2 times, and now have the girl. What would cause the sudden change of heart.
I would if I see a potential husband in him , and a perfect father for my kids
If I know he would treat me extremely well , would be absolute loyal , won’t indulge in emotional cheating , will wait for marriage for sex , and loves the insecure depressed loser side of me who cried in her bed and has no friends
Thanks for your input
Why do u like her. Do u understand if u were able to think I could never be anything more than friends with this girl at some point , it means u aren’t attracted to her
You are making your own assumptions and believing them. I asked a simple question, then clarified it for you, where you have a friend you said you just wanna be friends with, but then you changed your mind about the friend and now dates him. ANY guy would wonder about the sudden change of heart, where you now want him and months ago you didn't. Easy question. I am sorry for your insecurities, and please stop trolling now.
Why do u like her? Answer my question. If u were at a point honestly just friends it means u don’t find her attractive.
Why are you so interested in why I like her? She is the only person I trust and feel comfortable around to be my self. To open up with. THe only person who knows everything about me. She is kind, funny, caring, understanding, fun... You do understand that I am the one who wanted her and got the "just wanna be friends, two times from her and got her in the end. She rejected me two times before, and clearly just wanted to be friends. She didn't want a relationship. Then turned around and changed her mind and wanted to be with me. DO you understand that part? My question is why or what would cause a change of heart in a girl where she only wanted friendship but now wants a relationship. Any guy would wonder this at some point.
Even it it was reversed and you wanted to be with a guy friend and he said to you 2 times, he just wants to be friends with you, and suddenly changes his mind and then wants to date you, YOU would be lying if you said you wouldn't think about what caused the sudden change of heart.
U know there’s a saying, if u love someone or something when u are broken and lost , u will hate it once u heal
Exactly. U like her because she understands u. It’s friendship not attractive
Attraction
What does this have to do with my question.
U like her as a friend. Why do u want to make it something else
Again you are believing your own assumptions. Your opinion on relationships are flawed. You can't even answer a plain question. Even when I have clarified it for you. YOu clearly have been hurt and you are still going through it,
How do u both look
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