Girlfriend’s friend is trying to invite herself on our vacation. Do I have a right to put my foot down? (Page 3)

[muliebrity]

Just say we are looking for quality alone time together. Next time lets plan a couples thing. If she fusses and you guys cave in.. that is your problem.

[MajesticTwelve]

Absolutely you do, its your vacation. Just don't try to hide words. I'm sure feelings will be hurt but it's better than boiling resentment the whole vacation. That could effect a lot more.

[Thatsamazing]

Yeah. And your girlfriend should be part of it. If you don't want her, you don't want her. Say that you want it to be just the two of you. She shouldn't be inserting herself. It'll be an awkward conversation but it needs to happen.

[shimmeryns]

Tell her you want to spend quality time together with your girlfriend and will take her next time.

[DeeDeeDeVour]

Yes, you have a right to put your foot down. Do it.

[NicoMcNulty]

If your girlfriend agrees that is only both of you. Tell the friend that in the next trip you will have her in mind :)

[David_Kek]

You could try fucking your girlfriends friend... that'd put both of them in their place, especially in all likelihood that's probably a wish of said nosey friend.

[winterfox10]

Ugh, talk about pushy... I think you need to put your foot down about this, if the friend tries to be more bold. You don't want to create conflict though, obviously.

[Anonymous]

I would speak up and say something to the friend she will just keep doing it if no one says something to her

[whitehide]

Go straight to her friend and just be honest. Say it's a romantic vacation for you and your girlfriend as a COUPLE.

[Massageman]

The hard part is putting your foot down but not stepping on anyone's toes. So, do it, but do it in a kind-ish sort of way.

[Massageman]

Then the explanation is simplified - you need some time for just the two of you. With no interruptions, no matter how wonderfully intended those interruptions are.

[IceCastles]

Just say no! If she doesn't like it, then your girlfriend may need to reevaluate her friendship with this "friend."

[LIM1T]

As long as she pays everything for herself - it shouldn't be a problem in my opinion

[LIM1T]

But if she's trying to take charge, that's when you put your foot down and demonstrate that you were only informing her not inviting her

[Asker]

Oh I’m not paying for anything of her’s lol. This is supposed a trip for us. She will be the only single person there and because she’s my gf’s friend, and not friends with the other couple that’s going, my girlfriend is gonna feel obligated to share time, attention, etc with her. Then I kinda become the 3rd wheel. And I don’t think that’s fair.

[LIM1T]

Totally understandable. you need to tell her somewhere though that you don't want her to come

[LIM1T]

Somehow*

[HereIbe]

It's simple. You will have one bed, so it will be threesomes or she doesn't get to go.

GROW A PAIR OF BALLS, BOY!

Ditch that bitch you call a "girlfriend". She's a piece of shit.

[Devin5550]

This is almost like saying "hey can I come on your date" that is definitely crossing the line and you should be able to say that this is a thing for you and your girlfriend just you two not her friends not her family just the two of you

[Texaskid1]

Tell her yes but only if there is a threesome involved.

[Anonymous]

You have every right to say no. Her friend needs to know what boundaries are. And your girlfriend needs to be an adult and handle it. If she doesn't you're totally justified in it.

[Browneye57]

Tell her friend to FUCK OFF. Dear god, grow some balls man.

[cmoney88bags]

Jus say no plan n simple need boyfriend alone time n if she dont understand than u gonna have to cut her loose 🖖🏾💯

[winston117]

People never have a right to include themselves in things they are not expressly invited to. a lot tend to think so but it's because of a very selfish, entitled attitude