Our older son invited his friend for a sleepover tonight. Said friend has a brother. Their parents are divorced so they come as a pair. Actually my other son gets along quite well with the brother! My husband is having trouble processing the change from one boy sleeping over to two despite the fact that our workload has marginally if at all changed. I am a go with the flow type. He is not. Lifelong struggle. Any advice for us?

My SO follows the rules. I follow the ones I think make sense. LOL

i dont get it to me it would be cool and i ocd so sorry I don't know something to say

I haven’t a clue. I just try to speak calmly and assure her it’s ok…

Tell him to shut the fuck up and bake those cookies.

you have to be calm. You don't have to be angry. every problem can be solved

I tend to be the less flexible one.

Do you ever find your spouse is more rigid than you? How do you deal with their seeming inability to cope with the changes life throws your way? (Page 2)

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My SO follows the rules. I follow the ones I think make sense. LOL

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  Mmmhmmm. You sound like my younger son. That is how he rolls lol.
  
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- loveslongnails
  
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  I probably obey more of them than he does! I know enough to know that even when I don't understand some rules, especially in areas I know little about, I should at least follow them the first time! LOL
  
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- loves2learn
  
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  Yeahhhh he lives his life on the edge lol.
  
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i dont get it to me it would be cool and i ocd so sorry I don't know something to say

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I haven’t a clue. I just try to speak calmly and assure her it’s ok…

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Tell him to shut the fuck up and bake those cookies.

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  😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
  
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you have to be calm. You don't have to be angry. every problem can be solved

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I tend to be the less flexible one.

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No spouse 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Relax!

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  Ummmm k I will try?
  
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  good
  
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