I think this individual is toxic and it's possible to end your relationship with that person. But if you are not ready to end this relationship. It could help to understand why people do this.
First it is important to know our own history. I've Sen this in the people around me even in myself I just never took actions on the feelings.
One, this may be a pattern in her own personality maybe this has been a pattern she picked up in her family so she feels it's the only way to resolve her own feelings by getting back at you. People sometimes do the same that's been onto them.
Second it's typical in our nature. We might have evolved, but our minds still have the patterns from our ancestors at a cellular level. We typically see the people in our environment as competition we. may feel that there is a limit to supply. So when she sees you with something she doesn't have she may feel that you have taken something from her.
So in response to that she may try to take something that you have, as a revenge for making her feel that way.
I see this a lot actually in the people I meet. a lot of them are not ready to see that.
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That sounds like a toxic friend.
A friend of mine liked a girl, introduced her to his friends. Few months later, she had sex with 4 of his friends but not the guy who liked him and brought her to his own circle of friends.
No matter how perfect the girl or guy is, who is trying to sleep with people close to you just to hurt you, are toxic. As far as friends who would knowningly have sex with a person who the friend likes, is not by my defenition a friend of any kind.
Real friends would never allow a flinger between them.
I think it’s a combination of all those things since I’ve had it happen to me. They want to hurt you/punish you for them being jealous of you, and what better way than to destruct your relationship (s)?
They also want to prove they are just as good as you, because they can do what you do, and get what you get in life. If he gets with her and me, I’m just as pretty as her kind of thing.
Thirdly, they want to “win” against you, and they think that sleeping with your s/o will do that. In their minds it makes them better than you.
This is what my backstabbing friend and colleague did to me, and this is why she did it. It broke my heart but I learnt a valuable lesson after all that had happened. She was a jealous and insecure person.
Being jealous means she envies something you have that she can't get. It might be your looks, your job, your car, your family whatever.
To help suppress that she feels the need to prove to herself that for example even though you're way prettier she can still get men who like girls like you to prefer HER over you. It's the inferiority complex making her want to show that she can get things of your level without being at your level which she considers higher.
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Because she likes him.
There are as many possible motivations as there are people in this world. It's not worth racking your brain over. Ask her, or just accept the fact that it happened and decide how you want to react to it and how you want to proceed.
Like consider if the hurt and betrayal is enough to make you want to cut her off. Figuring out her motivations probably won't help with that.You need to scratch friend from that sentence. A friend wouldn't do it. So she is fake or just a person you know. Your not jealous of your friends your happy for them. Envious perhaps because you want it too. But you wouldn't go for your friends stuff, you would have to find it elsewhere.
Your answer is partially in your question but ultimately they aren’t your friend pull your head out of your ass and give some real thought to who is your real friends and who are not and if you can’t figure it out then you don’t have any friends
It’s cuz they aren’t really your friend they are a toxic friend that try to bring you down to their level
I think because they’re jealous of you, and they’re also jealous of ur partners. So they start to like ur partners.
What did you do to her? That’s attempting primal betrayal. Does it get lower?
it's because they hate themselves so much that they want someone else to feel the pain so they can feel happy.
None of them.
They are usually just trying to fish more incriminating information about you.To make you jealous. To take a revenge. Or something like that. Can be anything depends on that person.
Why are you friends with someone that is trying to hook up with your SO?
They are not really a friend. True friends would never do that to you.
Because they are a mean person.
Do you not know how jealousy works?
Because he fancies you
Because she's a triflin' ho.
Because she is jealous
Nah they were never your friend
How do know they’re jealous?
SO is why their jealous.
To get back at u
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