To those who have siblings of the opposite sex: Do you find you have learned things about that gender that help you in dating and relationships? (Page 3)
I have a kid sister that is 12 years younger than me.
It would of been nice to have a sister close to my age growing up. My mother brainwashed me to kiss girls asses when it can to dating and that was hard to unlearn.
Yeah I have. Don’t get me wrong though I didn’t get into incest it was more of a “how does she want to be treated” “she wants to be treated like a normal human” etc.
No because I only have two sisters, the one I lived with for most of my childhood was a psychological liar and a thief and my other sister I only visited sometimes with my dad when I was younger
That depends. Are you typically a glass half full type of guy? If so, then probably no. But if it's legitimate enlightenment... not all realizations need to be cheery or positive. I do think there's a decidedly morose aura on gag too often though.
I grew with my sister talking about how boys are dogs and violent menaces, when she was the horny creepy dog who physically bullied an entire school.
Have her cry how I would never understand being a woman and being at risk of DV, when she never suffered DV from anyone but our mom and only while as a kid, and the fact that I saw her draw blood from her ex's face. And I have suffered DV, including from her.
And then having men, with stellar records, perpetuating her bullshit, even when some have been at her hands and being able to retell it and then looking at their terrified faces when confronted with such.
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I have a kid sister that is 12 years younger than me.
It would of been nice to have a sister close to my age growing up. My mother brainwashed me to kiss girls asses when it can to dating and that was hard to unlearn.
I have 5 brothers. I doubt if it helped me in dating.
i've learned some stuff really nothing to do with dating
No. I have an opposite gender sibling but it hasn't really helped me at all in dating!
The only thing I learned from my two brothers is how extremely sensitive testicles are. I used to hit their balls all the time when I was younger lol.
Great question. I don’t have a sibling of the opposite sex, but I can see how that would potentially give a person a leg up in dating.
Yeah I have. Don’t get me wrong though I didn’t get into incest it was more of a “how does she want to be treated” “she wants to be treated like a normal human” etc.
No because I only have two sisters, the one I lived with for most of my childhood was a psychological liar and a thief and my other sister I only visited sometimes with my dad when I was younger
I don't have a sister but I've always wondered if having a sister would have changed my dating life.
Do you want existential dread? Because if I answered what I learned you'd get it.
That depends. Are you typically a glass half full type of guy? If so, then probably no.
But if it's legitimate enlightenment... not all realizations need to be cheery or positive.
I do think there's a decidedly morose aura on gag too often though.
I grew with my sister talking about how boys are dogs and violent menaces, when she was the horny creepy dog who physically bullied an entire school.
Have her cry how I would never understand being a woman and being at risk of DV, when she never suffered DV from anyone but our mom and only while as a kid, and the fact that I saw her draw blood from her ex's face. And I have suffered DV, including from her.
And then having men, with stellar records, perpetuating her bullshit, even when some have been at her hands and being able to retell it and then looking at their terrified faces when confronted with such.
sure... i know not to treat girls like shit like i often see a lot of guys do
Yes, my sister has given me some good advice.
she is a lot younger than I am.
I'm an only kiddo. No sibs.
My brother is 21 and SUPER immature.
No not really but again he’s only 12
Nope not at all
Hasn't helped
yes i have
Hardly