So my parents are poor, all they did was investing in our education.
I’ve been helping them financially since I was 21.
2 years ago I and my brother rent a house together and went apart from my family. I already lived alone since 21, I only took my brother in with me so he would have some freedom from the tensed family situation.
Our grandma needs daily care because of dementia and my grandpa passed away, our aunt who’s very rich, doesn’t keep grandma in her house, even though my mom lived there in her house, just to help her to take care of our grandma.
Now that I and my brother live apart, my aunt said to my mom, why should grandma always stay in my house? You are not that poor anymore, your children live apart from you, you can go take grandma to your children’s house for 5 days and send her back to me on weekends when I don’t work.
We felt pity for grandma and took her in for 4 days a week. She sleeps in my brothers bedroom and my brother sleeps on couch.
On Weekends my grandma goes to my aunts house. I am really tired to take care of everyone.
On weekends when my mom and aunt leave, my father comes to us, just watches TV and helps us with things or just sits there and drinks coffee.
I know mu apartment is much more comfortable than my parents tiny apartment but I am tired. I moved out and I have to look after of my mother, father, brother, grandmother.
Thankfully my brother helps me. But I am tired…
I’ve been helping them financially since I was 21.
2 years ago I and my brother rent a house together and went apart from my family. I already lived alone since 21, I only took my brother in with me so he would have some freedom from the tensed family situation.
Our grandma needs daily care because of dementia and my grandpa passed away, our aunt who’s very rich, doesn’t keep grandma in her house, even though my mom lived there in her house, just to help her to take care of our grandma.
Now that I and my brother live apart, my aunt said to my mom, why should grandma always stay in my house? You are not that poor anymore, your children live apart from you, you can go take grandma to your children’s house for 5 days and send her back to me on weekends when I don’t work.
We felt pity for grandma and took her in for 4 days a week. She sleeps in my brothers bedroom and my brother sleeps on couch.
On Weekends my grandma goes to my aunts house. I am really tired to take care of everyone.
On weekends when my mom and aunt leave, my father comes to us, just watches TV and helps us with things or just sits there and drinks coffee.
I know mu apartment is much more comfortable than my parents tiny apartment but I am tired. I moved out and I have to look after of my mother, father, brother, grandmother.
Thankfully my brother helps me. But I am tired…
