I cut them all completely. So I don't have to deal with them. Lets just say I'm not really invited to many family get together and it big deal at all. Because I'd find myself around a lot of family drama and family members that tend to take advantage of people that let them get close.
Also I don't really have any toxic friends. I have a small circle of friends and in a lot of ways we might as well be family. A lot of it comes from all of us coming from rough backgrounds. So in general we don't really tolerate people bringing a bunch of drama and BS into our lifes or the life of each another. Simply because we all in various ways dealt with too much drama and BS growing up. So be have zero tolerance for toxic people in general.
I just ignore them and go on with life, many online friends have bullied me
then they need advice well I think to myself, if you didn't hurt me then we would
be able to communicate online like two civilized people but usually in the end
I lose communication with them and most times it's for the best.
I choose not to deal with them. I would never call someone my friend if they're toxic I do not support that type of behavior. When it comes to family I respect them but avoid them at all costs my inner peace is more important than anything else.
I don't, that's the beauty of it. No time for toxic people
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Toxic is a 70 year old Dad who slaps your girl’s ass as she bending to pick up something in kitchen. And being so drawn to do that he does it in front of me.
—Never being able to bring a girl home for Mom to sniff out as marriage material because your Dad is of this Nature… DO NOT BE THIS KIND OF MAN…Your children, even at 12, do not want to see or sense this kind of Nature! I can not believe my Mom has endured such an Asshole.
“I can’t wait for Fathers Day 🎉…Yippie!!!-my attempt at humor…and you wonder why I’m such a God clinger in this Joint…
Well my toxic friends know that I feel that they are toxic so they don't try to get ahold of me except for one I can tolerate my family if I'm online if somebody sends me a message I don't want to talk to you I just don't talk to them like just a second ago one of my toxic friends just tried calling me and I just message I will call you back later
u same as you... I do not really have much toxic family or people around me, but yes... as soon as someone starts with some shitty things, I put a full stop to it, and if they keep it up, well I just ignore them, they're no longer part of my circles nor I will get near theirs... lol
If they only bring negative feelings, not even a bit sympathy, then I avoid them as much as possible. Being family is not an excuse, on the contrary. If people don't add something positive to each other, there's no point in meeting, safe some obligations of course where being polite will do.
Same here.
I do not interact with them. Its for my own health, safety and well being. They can lead themselves to ruin all by themselves. But they will not drag me with them to their own demises.
there is a reason I've been a lone wolf.
AVOID. i agree 100%. they are mood killers, why have someone try and take you down just because they are unhappy. anyways thats what i always do... i either leave the room and stop talking (if in person) or i avoid texts and calls
How do I deal with such people...
For friends... I leave them.
For family members... I expect them to come to their senses, but if not... kick them out. I have my own tensions, don't want theirs.
I'll try to set boundaries and salvage the relationship if possible, but after a warning or two I'll just cut out the cancer.
What else can you do? At some point you need to remove destabilizing influences on your emotional wellbeing.
Sınce you are my fuckin' toxic family member, I'm dealing with you with showing my fucking penis to you when we encounter.
I don't anymore... Life is too short and time is valuable and not something I wanna waste on toxicity...
so i need to see everybody in my family quite a lot so i can't just avoid the bad ones
i just stay quiet when im around them
i dont pay heed to most of the family members, they're all two-faced. and i wouldn't actually deal with toxic friends cuz i can just... not be friends with them, even if i knew them for a lifetime
I completely removed a toxic family member from my life. He still sends me mail telling me "one way or another we'll see each other again"
But I don't respond in any way. He's dead to me.
I just avoid them the best I can and if Im forced to be around them then Ill be on my best behavior.
I don't talk much with the relatives who are toxic for my parents and can influence me badly.
I try to focus on being proactively nice cause it’s how I avoid hating and getting wrathful
For social media for example on facebook there is an " unfollow" button which means you still follow them but you don't see their posts... which is the greatest thing. No feelings hurt
AVOID! Worked wonders! For me at least... But it's for the best!
Same as you but if they get in my way I will blow up in their face
Cut em out of my life. Might check on whether or not they change over time but yea I'm not missing out on much
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