Get her involved in a group outside of school, like Girl Scouts or Boys and Girls Club... somewhere she can develop leadership skills. Once she knows where she belongs and feels she has something legitimate to offer, she start to thrive.
Fifth grade is the toughest time for girls, as that's when all the princesses start vying to be queen. One minute you're my best friend, and then next minute you're just a piece of trash. Girls are crueler than boys. Unless she excels in a particular skill or participates in student government, the focus of girls tends to be very superficial. Help her to find her place rather than just allow her to run away and hide.
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Tell her it definitely won't happen if she doesn't go. And that it takes time sometimes to make/get friends. Reassure her it will come. You could also maybe talk to her teacher? In the 4th grade, I went to a new school at to my horror (at the time), the teacher announced to everyone I was new and that I "needed someone to play with". Only 1 kid put up his hand and volunteered (again to my horror as I hoped NOBODY would lol). But we became best friends for life. It never would have happened otherwise I'm sure of it.
Get her into an outside of school class of some sort. She can learn to interact in a fun environment instead of pressured like school. Martial arts classes are great for building confidence. They also teach defense. Everyone should try it.
Well it's non-negotiable. You can't give an inch on this one. She just has to go. That's not really the q though, is it?
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Suggest that she joins some extracurricular activities. Maybe a school play, the band, or a sport. That should help her to make friends.
Or at the beginning of the school year she could talk to her teacher (not in front of other students) and ask if they can do group activities or projects where she will be a team member so there will be more interaction between her and other students. She may be able to make friends that way as well.
school is not for friends... it's for learning. friends are a bonus. i'd sign her up for some activities like sports or something. she'll make friends there.
Send her to school and she will figure it. Keep her involved in/out of school
I left school due to that. I wish i didn't. Big mistake.
It's didn't getting bullied? If so, homeschool.
Give her some suggestions for making friends
How are you 24 with a 12 year old child?
Where are her friends from younger grades
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