I used to be friends with them and now I’m not?

[Anonymous]

I used to be friends with this one group over the summer, but when we returned to school they started giving me the cold shoulder. I haven’t done anything, so I don’t know why I’m getting it. Plus they’re the ones that organize everything (events and stuff) where everyone gets invited except me. It hurts and I don’t know what to do about it. I know it’s their loss, or that I shouldn’t want to have anything to do with them…but I don't know

[Anonymous]

It's difficult to know exactly why someone is behaving in a certain way, but based on the information you provided, it seems like this guy may not be interested in having a close relationship with you. It's possible that he feels uncomfortable with the amount of attention you are giving him on social media and is trying to distance himself from you.

It's important to respect his boundaries and not continue to send him social media requests or messages if he has indicated that he doesn't want to be connected on social media. It's also important to keep in mind that someone's behavior towards you is not necessarily a reflection of your worth or value as a person.

If this guy continues to be mean or hostile towards you, it may be best to limit your interactions with him and focus on building relationships with people who treat you with kindness and respect. Remember that you deserve to be treated well and to have positive, fulfilling relationships in your life.