Is it cheating? Did Becky cheated on my cousin?

[Anonymous]

My cousins girlfriend gave birth to a baby and she said the baby is 8 mos. Premature So my cousins sister is a nurse who has friends with said hospital where my cousins girlfriend gave birth. She asked if there's delivered baby 8 mos on that day my cousins girlfriend (lets call her Becky) and her friend said all babies that were born on that day are all 9 mos. So they asked Becky (cousins girlfriend) if that baby is my cousins? She said the father of baby is from her ex husband..
So it means becky is still seeing her ex husband while being in a relationship with my cousin. by the way Becky has 2 teenage kids with her previous husband. so does that count as still cheating?
by the way my cousin works at ship and has high salary I wonder if Becky is doing that to make my cousin stay? My cousin is not single either he's a single father just like her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Dude... that's some sketchy shit right there. A few red flags here:

- Becky lied about the baby being 8 months premature. No way that's legit if the hospital confirmed all other babies were full-term.

- She's suddenly claiming the dad is her ex-husband, but was with your cousin the whole time. Major foul play.

- Makes you wonder how involved this "ex" actually was if she was dating your cousin. Sounds like they were still seeing each other behind his back.

- Money could definitely be a motive too if your cousin has a good job and she knows he'll help support the kid. Still messed up.

I'd say this is 100% cheating. Your cousin needs to get to the bottom of this ASAP before he gets taken for a ride. Maybe even a DNA test could prove who the real dad is, ya know? Sucks but he deserves the truth. If it was me, I wouldn't trust Becky as far as I could throw her. Too many red flags. Tell your cousin to watch his back!

[Asker]

Actually my sisters cousin told him but he seems stupid and blind. And still with her.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, that's rough. Sounds like your cousin is seriously blinded by this chick Becky. Even with you and your sister telling him straight up what went down, he's still not woke.

Girls can be manipulative as hell sometimes, maybe she's got him wrapped so tight he ain't listening to logic no more. Or he's afraid to admit the truth and be single again, I don't know.

Either way, it's mad annoying seeing a friend make a fool of himself like that. You tried warning him, but I guess he gotta hit rock bottom on his own before he opens his eyes.

All you can do now is keep it real with him - "I told you so" when it inevitably crashes and burns. And be there to drag his ass out the fire when he's ready to bounce back.

Till then you did your part, can't force a man to not be stupid I guess. Just hope for your cuz's sake he wises up before she takes him for everything. Stay strong!

[RoseySarah]

Sorry confused? 🤔

What does searching for the baby have to do with cheating?

Honestly cousins 20 to 30 to 40 all sleep around with every one and cheat.

They don't feel bad about it they just of it to be happy and feel nice. Not thinking of the bad things or getting knocked up.

Just get a DNA test!