How do I approach this?

[Hiyami1153]

Hello, I’m new here and trying to get some answers or suggestions. I’m 35f with a 41m husband, we have 4 kiddos been married for 14 years. I’m stage 4 breast cancer kiddos are all over the age of 10. I am physically disabled as unable to work and I care for our disabled youngest as well as all the kiddos and house, I mean EVERYTHING. My husband refuses to work because he claims it’s just not what he wants to do until he has to when I die. He is addicted to online gaming and has openly admitted to that. He games 24 hours a day. He will force everyone in the home to cater to him (food, drinks, smokes… etc..) he doesn’t wish to do anything around the home or outside of the home. ( I have been his mommy since day one, I admit I was an idiot for letting it slide and not leaving sooner) he has now forcibly started “making conversation “ with me non stop about his gaming. Meaning he will start talking about his games non stop and gets angry if I don’t look, listen and give him my unwanted opinions about it. I hate it, I can not stand listening to him talking about anything to do with the games or streamers he watches 24 hours a day. I am sick physically and can’t divorce him. He won’t move out because he would rather me and my kids be homeless and struggle than him move out. (He doesn’t pay for anything, my ssi and youngest ssi pays the bills here. Which he will get angry and tell me over and over that, that money is not mine, it’s the governments so it doesn’t count) I’m scared to die and leave our children with such a childish person. I’m stuck. How do I get him to leave?

[Anonymous]

You need to seek help from God. That is the only way I can see that will make any difference. It's also possible that either some spiritual attack or demons are involved in all of this as well. I have dealt with family issues and after using prayer and the power of the Holy Spirit, we cast out the demons causing the problems. This resulted in complete personality changes for the better.

Many just do not realise that there is a whole unseen world that has a huge impact on their physical one. Even your disability is linked to all of it. What you can do is to simply pray for your husband on behalf of him. Go to the Walt Straughan ministries website and under the area of healing prayers, download the one called 'Spiritual Warfare Prayer – How to Defeat Sickness and Disease.'

Prayer this out loud on behalf of him using his name and do it for yourself and children as well. In time you will see changes. Also ask God to show you how to resolve this too. He always answers.

Please know that I lived most of my life as a non believer so don't think I was always this way concerning my belief. I used to deal with all life problems 'alone'.

[HelpfulWoman]

XD XD XD XD absolutely bloody nonsense here.

[Levin]

You must get rid of this piece of crud as a matter of urgency, by whatever practical means possible. It's entirely possible, in fact, I think it highly likely, that this waste of space is contributing to your health problems. Emotional tumult and stress have a highly destructive consequence on the immune system, especially over protracted periods. Excerpt taken from Metaphysical Anatomy, which looks at the psychological basis of disease. Hopefully this picture renders for you:

[rosemilk]

oh my, i am so sorry you are going through all of that. can you ask your family for help? you definitely need to sit down with a lawyer and figure out everything that you can do to make your children's lives better if something bad does happen

[HelpfulWoman]

CPS. you need to make a case for it, more so for when you die.

[strateguy632]

a spouse who doesn't work is cause for divorce warn him , that "you will file divorce if he doesn't start working".

[Anonymous]

If he doesn't leave, what is stopping you from leaving. Take the kids and run as far away from this toxic loser as possible.

[laly520]

time to leave urself