Hi what's everyone opinion on this?

[Anonymous]

hi there I keep telling my mum and sister. if they buy sweets and choclate or crisps for themselves to hide them somewhere i can't get them because I'm trying to lose more weight. but yet they leave it lying around or bring some in for me when i keep telling them not to everytime. but they do they leave it lying about when they know sometimes if i see it i get to tempted. some people said it sounds like they dont want you to succed in your goals jealous incase you get thin and they dont I do really live with a toxic mother and sister. i wanna get outta there they are half of why my life is so depressing. I'm waiting on my own house but its not coming fast enough honestly. I love them but I hate them to they just seem like they want me to fail and stay depressed what do all of you think?

[Bklynbadboy12]

You have to have so self control. You can eat some just not a lot. Plus you have to workout that key in losing weight diet will only take you part of the way working out is the other part of that

[Asker]

yeah I do workout a good few times my orlistat help to but the thing is they should try to help no encourage me to eat rubbish by buying me it

[Asker]

thank yiu

[Asker]

thank you i ment

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your right they should be helpful. I'm so proud of you for grabbing the bull by the horn and working out so you can get healthy. Kudos to you! 😉 I'm a gym rat so if you need any pointers reach out. I'm here for you. Keep up the good work

[Asker]

thank you very much you've been a understanding person 😉

[Bklynbadboy12]

Your so welcome 🙏

[VV3ZZY123]

You could always hit the gym every day. I can eat whatever I want as long as I get a good workout in.

[Asker]

I do g it the gym i have a balance ball and treadmill in this house but the thing is my life has always been depressed with my body and am asking these to as family for help but they seem to not care about helping i dont get good vibes around them not one bit i dont feel comfy with my sister and mum I feel left out and invisable so I'm 17 stone really depressed a lot in my life has happend for this to happen now when I get tablets from the doctor to help me lose weight and ask them for help to succed i have always wanted to be fit and never been able to succed i lost 2 and a half stone a good wile ago but am asking them to help i was more closer to my dad that died than my mum and closer to my older sister than my little plus she a attention seeking spoiled bitch its not my kinda thing but when I lose this i dont wanna put it back on i want to keep it away understand what i mean i have always been big had troubles doing it alone with depression and its going to take time with what weight I'm so I want to get it away as soon as possible and keep it away get me

[VV3ZZY123]

Aww sorry your dad passed away. Mine did too. Narcissist is Spiritually Sick and Full of Anger. If you can see that maybe it's easier to forgive so you dont carry anger too. It's hard to do anything when you have Resentments. Dont beat yourself up either!

[Asker]

thank you thats nice I'm sorry to hear about your father to but I just want out this house a don't get on good with my mum and younger sister and dont feel comfy around them its no good for my depression and thanks for your opinion

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea. I get that. Anytime :)

[Asker]

thank you

[rosemilk]

they don't care about your diet or that you want to better yourself. they are only thinking about themselves. if they cared, they'd for sure want what's best for you, but that is not the case

[Asker]

see thats what i think totally or they would try and help